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♥MomToSilas+1♥ Due December 9; 1 child; ., IL, United States 11483 posts
12th Jul '13

I wouldnt have even accepted him. When I deleted DS' dad my reasonsing was simple. "FB is MY personal page. Not DS' page. So there is no reason for you to be on there. Heres my number"
Of course he hasnt tried. But if he were to ask to come see his son... I wouldnt say no.

Mama Van D Due November 3; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Unity, Maine 2454 posts
12th Jul '13
Quoting Lin Brown:" i personally wouldn't of added him, i would've just sent him a message saying something like "if you ... [snip!] ... i'm not adding you so you can keep tabs on him and call yourself a dad just because you tagged yourself in a pic on my profile""


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babynumbah2;) 2 kids; Japan 160 posts
13th Jul '13
Quoting Mama Van D:" <blockquote><b>Quoting babynumbah2;):</b>" As a family who is on the opposite end where ... [snip!] ... on the BC and lied about getting him DNA tested. Now, 17 months later, DH has finally gotten to start seeing his daughter."

Similar but baby mama drama and I were preggers at same time bc he didn't think dss was his(with ample reason) and they were never in a relationship but she has it in her head and that he cheated on her with me but they were never together she slept with his neighbors and a few bff s and he only did it that once with everyone else....his baby mom is nuts legally she's on meds for bi polar. And I don't think she take them. His ds is 27 months and we only seen him 5 or 6 times....waiting for the next court date for her in contempt of court order..... don't be that girl it's about the child.......I would never keep my daughter from dh ever . I see how it breaks him down looking at year old pics of his ds with tears in his eyes. It's heartbreaking to see the love of a father. And to pay out weekly on a child he never sees its not fair. Men move slow yes did my dh yes he didn't want to get too attached with out a DNA test.... but she called him once saying dss was dying....dying.... and he went to the hospital and stayed up all night with him and took care of him....he only got an extra digit cut off.... he loves that child like he love ours...... and scorned women don't think of how much a child needs his/her father....only of how much they were hurt....and to me that's selfish.

2 kids; Anderson, Indiana 323 posts
13th Jul '13

Thing is that he winded going upto Washington.. So there's no way he could come over to see DS, I did msg him saying "if you need to contact me about DS, you can call." He replies with "oh my phone is broking." So i think he's trying in some ways, but he definitely can't be in DS's life if it's just on FB, if he really wanted to care for DS he'd be down here in FL to be in DS's life. But I'm not taking away DS from his dad, it's just his dad isn't showing any effort what so ever.. Honestly DS'S father's name is not on the BC. I made all my setting on fb to where he can't see.

babynumbah2;) 2 kids; Japan 160 posts
13th Jul '13

I would at least let him see pics of his son....it's his son.... right? When you don't put a man on the bc they start thinking it's not his....men don't think like we do.... My dh got tricked but it's cool it's his anyways she told him at 4 am after 27 hours of him being up with her in labor that he was signing a form to get a DNA test.... it was the birth certificate he had to get a court ordered one because she refused to get one......at least get his email address my dh hates hearing her voice and communicates through fb messages....and when I was her fb friend she was tearing through a new "love" every other week.....all of whom ex cons. They say it themselves bout being fresh outta jail.... we hate this and just want to share him but she wants to punish him...... don't be that girl.

♥MomToSilas+1♥ Due December 9; 1 child; ., IL, United States 11483 posts
13th Jul '13

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2 kids; Anderson, Indiana 323 posts
13th Jul '13

The door is open for him to see his son and if chooses not to walk through the open door then that's on him,I'm civil with DS's father.