so me and my fiancee split on the 3rd. bc i thought he was cheating on me which he wasnt. now he doesnt want any contact for awhile and i dont think he even wants to be with me in general. i need to win him back im 25 weeks pregnant we have trust issues which we both agreed a few days ago to work our issues out. but im not sure if he wants to. hes on this site called meetme where you meet other like teens and it makes me think hes trying to move on. were only 18. but i need help you all have more knowledge then i do and my friends and family are no help :/ im desperate
Quoting Nicole Puglisi:" so me and my fiancee split on the 3rd. bc i thought he was cheating on me which he wasnt. now he doesnt ... [snip!] ... on. were only 18. but i need help you all have more knowledge then i do and my friends and family are no help :/ im desperate "
you need to "win" him back? i do understand completely what you are saying, and feeling, but you don't want to force something. you want him to to WANT to be with you. if he is forced into it and you will obviously be able to tell, neither one of you will be happy.
Give him his space. If you chase he is going to run harder.
Give him the space he wants. If hes on dating sites already he is obviously having other issues. If he wants to be with you, you two will work things out, and if he doesn't then you two will have to learn how to coparent without being together. It is tough but you will make it through. Talk to him, maybe try counseling together? But don't chase him, that will not help.
Definitely give him space. Trying to make him want to be with you will make it worse. He knows how you feel so give him time to think about what he wants. As for the trust issues...if you can't trust each other ypu are wasting your time honestly. Especially if you havent given each other a reason not to trust each other.