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Thinking!!!!! Britney Banks TTC since Jun 2012; Portageville, Missouri 55 posts
14th Jul '13

Well I'm getting Kinda up set what am I doing wrong????? I just had a niece and a nephew my niece was born on the 8th then my nephew was born on the 9th and a little cousin as well on the 9th Three Babies In One Week.I find myself separating myself from everyone thats pregnant that has kids or just having kids Idk whats wrong with me I'm starting to question myself is there anything i need to change I have got my cycles back to normal taking vitamins and herbs eating healthy and still theres no baby theres nothing wrong with my husband i've been tested I have been told everythings normal and find hormones or balanced as the should be is there anything else besides red raspberry leaf tea, vitex, fertility blend,Womens detox,Full body detox, women daily vitamins,Temp charting,Clomid isn't a option for me or IVF...



HELP ME GUYS IS THERE ANYTHING ELSE!!!!!!

Mrs.Gray♥ 48 kids; Corinth, Mississippi 1669 posts
14th Jul '13

Sometimes it just takes time. I hear stories all the time of people trying for TWENTY years to have a baby before it finally happens. Yes, it hurts when those around you seem to be able to get pregnant at the drop of a hat. Trust me, I know. Just be patient and it will happen when it is supposed to. *hugs and baby dust*

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
14th Jul '13
Quoting Britney Banks:" Well I'm getting Kinda up set what am I doing wrong????? I just had a niece and a nephew my niece was ... [snip!] ... detox, women daily vitamins,Temp charting,Clomid isn't a option for me or IVF... HELP ME GUYS IS THERE ANYTHING ELSE!!!!!! "


Be patient. We struggled for years. We just gave up. Decided it wasn't in the cards for us. I had to learn that it was ok to be happy for others. We started the application process for adoption and BAM pregnant!!! 6w3d we went for our first u/s because I am high risk with a history of multiple m/c's. TWINS!! My daughters are now 5 and we were blessed with a little boy who just turned 3. Things work the way they are supposed to. When you aren't stressing over getting pregnant is when your body will relax and allow it to happen. have faith ;)

Britney Banks TTC since Jun 2012; Portageville, Missouri 55 posts
14th Jul '13
Quoting Mrs.Gray♥:" Sometimes it just takes time. I hear stories all the time of people trying for TWENTY years to have a ... [snip!] ... at the drop of a hat. Trust me, I know. Just be patient and it will happen when it is supposed to. *hugs and baby dust*"


Thanks You :)

Britney Banks TTC since Jun 2012; Portageville, Missouri 55 posts
14th Jul '13
Quoting Not tellin:" Be patient. We struggled for years. We just gave up. Decided it wasn't in the cards for us. I had to ... [snip!] ... supposed to. When you aren't stressing over getting pregnant is when your body will relax and allow it to happen. have faith ;)"


Thank you

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
14th Jul '13
Quoting Britney Banks:" Thank you "


We didn't do fertility treatments either. It is just something that we didn't feel was right for us. Do your best to enjoy this ride. It is short lived. Also, the private and romantic moments between my husband and I are far and few these days. Enjoy them while they last.

Mrs.Gray♥ 48 kids; Corinth, Mississippi 1669 posts
14th Jul '13
Quoting Not tellin:" We didn't do fertility treatments either. It is just something that we didn't feel was right for us. ... [snip!] ... lived. Also, the private and romantic moments between my husband and I are far and few these days. Enjoy them while they last."


I am so glad that I am not alone in this thought. DH and I feel that if we can't have kids on our own without medical intervention, then we are meant to adopt kids that are already on this Earth and longing for a family.

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
14th Jul '13
Quoting Mrs.Gray♥:" I am so glad that I am not alone in this thought. DH and I feel that if we can't have kids on our own ... [snip!] ... our own without medical intervention, then we are meant to adopt kids that are already on this Earth and longing for a family. "


That was exactly our thoughts. We figured that it meant we were supposed to share our love and lives with a child that might not otherwise have that opportunity. We gave ourselves an age to stop "trying". Turns out, we got lucky at the end. lol We didn't try for our son. In 18 months we litterally had sex 6 times (twins and him being a wildland firefighter being gone all the time). Of those 6 times I got pregnant 3. lol We didn't think to "prevent" because of our 10 year struggle with maintaining pregnancy and years in there with not so much as a faint line on a test. Wouldn't have it any other way ;)

Britney Banks TTC since Jun 2012; Portageville, Missouri 55 posts
14th Jul '13

Right you guys at this point we decided to Take a break if it happens it happens...but what i meant by taking a break is taking a break from, opk's and temp charting and herbs and just see what happens...if nothing happens in the next couple of months we are going to go see if my tubes are blocked i for got the name of it lol

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
21st Jul '13
Quoting Britney Banks:" Right you guys at this point we decided to Take a break if it happens it happens...but what i meant by ... [snip!] ... nothing happens in the next couple of months we are going to go see if my tubes are blocked i for got the name of it lol"


HSG.