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He said it's up to me. Frozen 《11/12/14》 TTC since May 2014; 2 angel babies; Phoenix, AZ, United States 6549 posts
status 14th Jul '13

Dating for 2 years, TTC for 11 months, unsuccessful pregnancies, and he tells me it's up to me if we should still be together.



That sounds like he has given up on us, does it not?




All because him and my LS couldn't get along. He gave me the ultimatum to choice my family or him.



What do I do..? :(

Angel [Mariah's Mommy] 1 child; Indianapolis, Indiana 18065 posts
14th Jul '13

Never chose a man over your family. A real man would never make you chose

Jennybananna 2 kids; Gilbert, AZ, United States 25079 posts
14th Jul '13

I would never be with so done who would ask me to choose.

iLL-Legal Unicorn Alien 3 kids; New York, TX, United States 37137 posts
14th Jul '13

I would be gone as soon as I was put in a position to choose between him and my family.

ℕightingale 1 child; Mississippi 8338 posts
14th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:</b>" Never chose a man over your family. A real man would never make you chose"</blockquote>




:!:

Mama Van D Due November 3; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Unity, Maine 2454 posts
14th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:</b>" Never chose a man over your family. A real man would never make you chose"</blockquote>



:!: exactly.

Caydence's mommy 4/4/09 32 kids; Las Vegas, Nevada 8538 posts
14th Jul '13

I firmly believe family should always come first. Also if he cared about you at all he would never ask you to make a choice like that.

Crazyhazel89 1 child; Erie, Pennsylvania 3994 posts
14th Jul '13

what do you do? Say bye bye......if he has already given up and you don't have a child...how will he handle raising a child?

J+B=Z&L ♡ 2 kids; Pensacola, Florida 5889 posts
14th Jul '13

I agree with everyone else. Never pick a man over your family.

¡VinHaute! Memphis, Tennessee 45588 posts
14th Jul '13

Sounds like you lucked out, I'd be chuckin' the deuces.

Nicola. 2 kids; Huntsville, AL, United States 8882 posts
status 14th Jul '13

If it were me, my response would have been, "You just made the choice for me." and I would be gone.

☮Hippie Jesus☮ 2 kids; West Virginia 10560 posts
14th Jul '13

Yup, like everyone else said... Get out of there.

Frozen 《11/12/14》 TTC since May 2014; 2 angel babies; Phoenix, AZ, United States 6549 posts
status 26th Jul '13

I said to him, "well, it sounds like you already made up my mind for me so I chose my family." and he was ok with it. Screw him!