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Barnett Babies Due February 22; 10 kids; Indiana 1770 posts
16th Jul '13
Quoting Khaylee's Mamma (::" Last September I had a really bad drinking problem. One night while my daughter was asleep I got drunk ... [snip!] ... And I hope to get my daughter back . I've only been back for 2 weeks. And dint know who I can speak to about all this with."

I was just curious of how you know the gender of your baby due in April?

user banned 3 kids; Washington 15083 posts
16th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Barnett Babies:</b>" I was just curious of how you know the gender of your baby due in April?"</blockquote>




That is odd. And based off her due date, her LMP was June 25, which mean conception just occurred between the 5th and 13th. Is that even long enough to get a Positive test?

Rebekah Garden x3 Due October 5 (boy); 33 kids; Fall River, Massachusetts 5223 posts
16th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Barnett Babies:</b>" I was just curious of how you know the ... [snip!] ... LMP was June 25, which mean conception just occurred between the 5th and 13th. Is that even long enough to get a Positive test?"</blockquote>




I was like "3 weeks pregnant" when I got my pos.

user banned 3 kids; Washington 15083 posts
16th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rebekah Garden x3:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... 13th. Is that even long enough to get a Positive test?"</blockquote> I was like "3 weeks pregnant" when I got my pos."</blockquote>



So was I. She must've made the thread rather quickly after finding out because today would be the 3 week mark.

Rebekah Garden x3 Due October 5 (boy); 33 kids; Fall River, Massachusetts 5223 posts
16th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Rebekah Garden x3:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♫ ... [snip!] ... So was I. She must've made the thread rather quickly after finding out because today would be the 3 week mark."</blockquote>




Yeah. Maybe that's the first thing that cross her mind, or she's guessing on the due date?

Serial Mom ✄ 18 kids; Michigan 2690 posts
17th Jul '13

CPS could very well take your new baby. It really depends. My mom is the head of the foster care division here in Michigan so I know a lot about this.



You need to finish that program ASAP. Seriously, you should've done that a long time ago. And talk to a lawyer and your caseworker. You should have both since you have a case.



If you don't get your daughter back by the time this new baby is born, she is going to be devastated. She will feel replaced, like you didn't care enough about her so you had a new baby to love. She will resent you and the new baby.

Good Queen Bess 2 kids; Ontario 46839 posts
status 17th Jul '13
Quoting Serial Mom ✄:" CPS could very well take your new baby. It really depends. My mom is the head of the foster care division ... [snip!] ... will feel replaced, like you didn't care enough about her so you had a new baby to love. She will resent you and the new baby."


People keep saying, "get her daughter back". Her daughter isn't in foster care, the child has been cared for and in the custody of her biological father.



I truly doubt she will get residential custody of her daughter back any time soon, she has shown herself to be unstable and unpredictable. Her best bet, instead of "fighting" to get her child living with her full time, she should be concentrating on rebuilding their relationship and having steady visitation.

Barnett Babies Due February 22; 10 kids; Indiana 1770 posts
17th Jul '13
Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Barnett Babies:</b>" I was just curious of how you know the ... [snip!] ... LMP was June 25, which mean conception just occurred between the 5th and 13th. Is that even long enough to get a Positive test?"

I have to really do the math..It would depend on how long ago she posted that...thinking she would have had to got pregnant confirmed pregnant by the end of June and yes that could bring her EDD to April 1st...No way she would know the gender though!!

Barnett Babies Due February 22; 10 kids; Indiana 1770 posts
17th Jul '13
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" People keep saying, "get her daughter back". Her daughter isn't in foster care, the child has been cared ... [snip!] ... her child living with her full time, she should be concentrating on rebuilding their relationship and having steady visitation."


Agreed

Khaylee's Mamma (: Due March 18 (boy); 1 child; 1 angel baby; Bakersfield, California 1901 posts
2nd Aug '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Barnett Babies:</b>" I was just curious of how you know the gender of your baby due in April?"</blockquote>




I haven't updated my due date since my last pregnancy. I had a son and gave him up for adoption. I had him April 2012 I am now 7 weeks due march 18

Khaylee's Mamma (: Due March 18 (boy); 1 child; 1 angel baby; Bakersfield, California 1901 posts
2nd Aug '13

Anyways I''ve been getting my shit together and get my daughter all day Monday through Friday's and taking care of my grandma at night's . One step at a time but I'll very there.

Khaylee's Mamma (: Due March 18 (boy); 1 child; 1 angel baby; Bakersfield, California 1901 posts
2nd Aug '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Serial Mom ✄:</b>" CPS could very well take your new baby. It really depends. My mom is the head of the foster care division ... [snip!] ... will feel replaced, like you didn't care enough about her so you had a new baby to love. She will resent you and the new baby."</blockquote>



Thanks and yea I've talked to someone and they won't take my new baby because it's a completely different case . And I am done doing what I need I need to get her back. I get her Monday through Friday 7am to 5 and she even stays the night with me. And during the nights I take car of my grandma
And I'll be starting the substance abuse program . My daughter is excited to be getting a lil brother or sister. I hope she won't be jealous but all I can do is show her how much I love her and keep working g on getting dome custody back

G's mommy 1 child; Michigan 37 posts
3rd Aug '13

This truly hurts my heart. I can barely go without seeing my son for two days, let alone 10 months. : /
I think it is VERY unfair for you to want to take her and have her live with you after a year, where I'm sure her father had to answer questions like, "where's mommy?'
The fact he's even letting you see her is being really nice in my opinion.. I would finish the program, & keep seeing her everyday.
You need to do what is best for HER, and HER only. Not what you want.. I don't think in any situation it's in the childs best interest to be ripped away from a life/home she's known for the passed year, after TWO weeks of seeing her again.
Ugh, God,this just hurts my heart.

Khaylee's Mamma (: Due March 18 (boy); 1 child; 1 angel baby; Bakersfield, California 1901 posts
4th Aug '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting G's mommy:</b>" This truly hurts my heart. I can barely go without seeing my son for two days, let alone 10 months. : ... [snip!] ... away from a life/home she's known for the passed year, after TWO weeks of seeing her again. Ugh, God,this just hurts my heart."</blockquote>




She lived with me for three years and has barely lived with him almost a year. And is constantly telling her dad if she can stay the night with me. And tells me when can she move back with me and us get are new home. It might be a little bit different her moving back with me but she remembers living with me and wants to live with me so I don't think it would be very hard.

Khaylee's Mamma (: Due March 18 (boy); 1 child; 1 angel baby; Bakersfield, California 1901 posts
4th Aug '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting G's mommy:</b>" This truly hurts my heart. I can barely go without seeing my son for two days, let alone 10 months. : ... [snip!] ... away from a life/home she's known for the passed year, after TWO weeks of seeing her again. Ugh, God,this just hurts my heart."</blockquote>




And I'm not taking her after TWO weeks it's been over a month and I seepend 5 days a week with her. But I'm also not taking her there's still a lot I have to do before I get her back.