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neighbor yelling at DD Kenzie + TTC since Jun 2012; 1 child; Grundy Center, Iowa 10663 posts
16th Jul '13

Last August me and SO bought a house together. We packed up and moved four hours away from where we're from not knowing the new area at all. We love our house but we're both from small towns and people are..... less friendly ... here and things are a little weird. Some wont look at you even if you say hello, and others will say hello but completely stick to themselves which is totally ok ... but I have a really good feeling that three or 4 houses in my neighborhood are on some sort of hard drugs. One of our neighbors is actually way cool though. Very nice. Helpful. and we consider him a friend. Well my daughter goes outside during the day and plays with the neighbor kids. Theres one girl who is only a year older than her and they have similar interests so she plays with her the most.



The neighbor that we are friends with was telling me the other night that he was over at the girls house a week or so ago talking to her dad and my DD went and knocked on the door to see if she could come outside to play. Apparently he wouldn't open the door for DD to talk to her and he just yelled through the door "NO DON'T EVEN ASK THEY AREN'T F*CKIN HERE" and DD said sweetly carelessly "Ok we'll just play later" and she turned around and came back home. DD never told me about it because i'm sure she wasn't aware that it was wrong... but i'm so heated over it!!!! How dare he talk to her like that. I want to remain calm and confront him and tell him that if he doesn't want DD to knock on the door that we will make sure she doesn't BUT another part of me wants to come unglued! His DD comes and knocks on our door every single day and we don't mind it AT ALL!



What do you guys think about this? And how would you react?

Shealene Schuckers Due September 15 (boy); 1 child; Pennsylvania 384 posts
16th Jul '13

I'd probably go over and rip him a new a*****e. Grrrrr...jerk.

Kenzie + TTC since Jun 2012; 1 child; Grundy Center, Iowa 10663 posts
16th Jul '13
Quoting Shealene Schuckers:" I'd probably go over and rip him a new a*****e. Grrrrr...jerk."


Trust me I want to.... but we have to be neighbors with him for a longggggggggg time... and our daughters being friends and all....

Mama Van D Due November 3; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Unity, Maine 2454 posts
16th Jul '13

I would probably lose my shit.

Shealene Schuckers Due September 15 (boy); 1 child; Pennsylvania 384 posts
16th Jul '13
Quoting Kenzie +
~Raylan's Mama~ 1 child; Tennessee 2116 posts
16th Jul '13

Go over ask him wtf his problem is and tell him if he ever talks to your daughter like that again you won't just be there to talk :wink: lol

Minion Due September 30 (girl); 2 kids; ., GA, United States 21142 posts
status 16th Jul '13

I would tell him to never speak to my child that way ever again.

Rain (aka Mama) 3 kids; Monroe, Georgia 6487 posts
16th Jul '13

Oh I definitely would have gone over there and (as calmly as possible) said that he'd better not ever speak to my daughter that way again. I'd try and be nice since the girls are friends, but I'd be mad as hell.