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Lets talk mom sex user banned
16th Jul '13

So the t*******e post got me thinking about this issue I have.



Do any of you mamas have a harder time doing certain 'things' now that you are a mom?
Im pretty free spirited and have had plenty of experience before SO. SO and I have a very healthy sex life and Ive done more with him than anyone, we are very comfortable together.



But then sometimes it pops in my head like 'I cant do that, Im a mom'



Like for example, I can just not do anal while pregnant....it seems trashy lol, like my baby is inside me, awkward lol.



Anyone else feel like this is similar or am I completely on my own here :(

Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 8084 posts
status 16th Jul '13

Public sex. I used to have sex anywhere. On the beach, parking garage, hood of the car, park, you name it. Now I'm like ehhhh let's go inside.

user banned 2 kids; Silly, Belgium 6539 posts
16th Jul '13

Lol, Anything I won't do as a mom is the same stuff I wouldn't do before I was a mom. It didn't affect my sex life at all.

Kbyers91 1 child; Albany, Ohio 164 posts
16th Jul '13

Lol I definitely know what you mean.. I feel the same way.

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14109 posts
16th Jul '13

Being a mom had no affect on me but there are a ton of stuff I won't do while pregnant. If the baby is inside me, I'm a lot less freaky than when the baby is sleeping in the other room.

user banned 1 child; :), :), United States 5380 posts
16th Jul '13

Haha. Nothing comes to mind except that I can't just have sex whenever anymore because I have to watch DD. No kinds of sex with SO is out of the question just cause I'm a mom.

Randilion 2 kids; ....., .., United States 7879 posts
status 16th Jul '13

Dude anal was awesome when I was pregnant. Now it's like uh don't even touch that. Maybe it's also the different person I'm with. But idk if I think that other than having another partner in bed with us. Just because I'm a mom doesn't mean I can't feel good/have fun!



But being ttc it's like I can't give him a bj if I wanna get pregnant lol.

user banned Due January 20; 33 kids; North Carolina 14662 posts
16th Jul '13

No, but I think DH thinks that. lol

_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
16th Jul '13

I don't think it's a Mom thing, to me it's an adult thing, lol. I am TOO old to be having sex random places. That shits uncomfortable and I feel too old to be uncomfortable during sex, haha.

Bree-L 2 kids; California 263 posts
16th Jul '13

I feel weird doing things while PREGNANT, but I didn't with my first pregnancy; it's only this one. lol. I know it's just because of me being pregnant. When I'm not pregnant, it's completely different! I never stop myself from doing things I want to do because I'm a mom. Lol. The thought never crosses my mind. If I'm doing it with my husband and we both want to do it, then we do it (within reason, of course lol).

Mason & Carmen's Mommy 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Michigan 3047 posts
status 16th Jul '13

hmm kinda, well I can't do anal anytime but just because I'm a whimp. But I don't like oral on me now because SO has seen my birth 2 kids so Im pretty sure he has some awful images in his head now of my vag so its pretty awkward for me anyway even tho he has never said anything

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
16th Jul '13

Phew....so glad to know Im not alone on this lol




Never said anything was off limits.....just saying I feel different about it.

Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 8084 posts
status 16th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Randilyn:</b>" Dude anal was awesome when I was pregnant. Now it's like uh don't even touch that. Maybe it's also the ... [snip!] ... I'm a mom doesn't mean I can't feel good/have fun! But being ttc it's like I can't give him a bj if I wanna get pregnant lol."</blockquote>




Sure ya can lol just tell him where he's gotta finish lol

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
16th Jul '13
Quoting Just Emily :):" Public sex. I used to have sex anywhere. On the beach, parking garage, hood of the car, park, you name it. Now I'm like ehhhh let's go inside."



this.

Randilion 2 kids; ....., .., United States 7879 posts
status 16th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Emily :):</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Randilyn:</b>" Dude anal was awesome when I was pregnant. Now ... [snip!] ... give him a bj if I wanna get pregnant lol."</blockquote> Sure ya can lol just tell him where he's gotta finish lol"</blockquote>



He's quick to finish and I like to swallow lol so too much pressure to get things right! I'd do it on my period but I think he gets his man period at the same time.