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SO's sister refuses to see him. N's Momma☆ 1 child; Spain 2346 posts
16th Jul

My SO and I went over to his sister's house today. She refused to even come to the door and instead sent her daughter (SO's niece to see us.) She doesn't wanna see him anymore because she says that he won't give her any money for their mom.
My SO is looking for another job but we're barely getting by ourselves. Is she selfish for this? I mean we have a 4mon.old and I just think she's being a b***h.

Booger & Bubba's Mommy 18 kids; Illinois 8136 posts
16th Jul

So his sister $ niece refuse to see him unless he supports their family?? That's just wrong



I won't likely ever see my brother again, its due to his actions though (he's currently in prison).

Pregnancy Addiction Due August 10; TTC since Mar 2013; 7 kids; Wyoming 12163 posts
16th Jul

Why does she need your SO to give money to his Mom?

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
16th Jul

I don't see how you having a 4 month old factors in. Why does his Mom need money?

*~*Sara&Ben+1.5*~* Due April 22; 1 child; Murray, Kentucky 1210 posts
16th Jul

Why should he be supporting his sister? Tell her to get off her butt, get a job and support herself AND her child!

.Solange. 1 child; Montreal, 5566 posts
16th Jul

Yeah, she's being a self-centered b***h. It's her loss

Arks Mama! ಠ_ಠ 1 child; Utah 2401 posts
16th Jul
Quoting A❤T=P&W:" I don't see how you having a 4 month old factors in. Why does his Mom need money? "


I guess because babies are expensive? :P



..And yeah, if she doesn't want to see her family because of money then she is being an ass.

☆º×ß¡±©µ×º☆ Due September 18; 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Centralia, Washington 44154 posts
16th Jul

<blockquote><b>Quoting .Solange.:</b>" Yeah, she's being a self-centered b***h. It's her loss"</blockquote>




How is she self centered when she wants her brother to help with their mom?

♥ LA 1 child; ..., KY, United States 612 posts
16th Jul
Quoting A❤T=P&W:" I don't see how you having a 4 month old factors in. Why does his Mom need money? "


I took it as she has a 4 month old to support and can't afford to support other people as well.

Mari-C 18 kids; Nebraska 3695 posts
16th Jul
Quoting A❤T=P&W:" I don't see how you having a 4 month old factors in. Why does his Mom need money? "


I took it as, them having a child and themselves to take care of and with funds being low, they are not able to help out their mom....idk.

But I'm also curious to know why she (her SO's mom) needs money.

OP: I think it's pretty shitty of his sis to be acting like that..I'm sure if you could help out with a little something you would...it's just not an option right now.

Mama Van D 18 kids; Unity, Maine 2454 posts
16th Jul

Wait, is she being a b***h because he won't give HER or their MOM money? I'm confused.



Either way, why te hell should you have to support them?

N's Momma☆ 1 child; Spain 2346 posts
16th Jul

His mom is sick but his sister is way better off than we are! She has a new car, a 2 bedroom apartment.

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
16th Jul
Quoting N's Momma:" His mom is sick but his sister is way better off than we are! She has a new car, a 2 bedroom apartment. "



It sucks that you guys are not as rich as her, but when a parent is ill it should be everyone responsibility to do their part and help carry the burden. I get her frustration.

Pregnancy Addiction Due August 10; TTC since Mar 2013; 7 kids; Wyoming 12163 posts
16th Jul
Quoting N's Momma:" His mom is sick but his sister is way better off than we are! She has a new car, a 2 bedroom apartment. "


How much is she wanting you all to contribute, and when you say sick do you mean like SICK sick or just flu bug sick?

N's Momma☆ 1 child; Spain 2346 posts
16th Jul
Quoting Pregnancy Addiction:" How much is she wanting you all to contribute, and when you say sick do you mean like SICK sick or just flu bug sick?"


SO gave her $600 a few months back to send to their mom & then his sister complains and says she used half of to pay off her son's car. Like what the hell? Idk I don't get it. And his mom his like...sick, I don't know exactly what she has.