Quoting Jennybananna:" Right my heart is just breaking for what could of happened to this little girl and how it might affect her the rest of her life. "
I cannot imagine but it must have been a disgusting heinous act since she can't even speak of it. And you're right about the long term affects this child might have from said incident.
<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" JFC CLEARLY THE DAYCARE DIDN'T OVERLOOK SHIT SINCE HE WAS KICKED THE f**k OUT."</blockquote>
You mad? I'm saying nobody knows how long this kid was in the daycares before he got kicked out. Nobody knows who suggested what treatments to OP. Nobody knows if every single thing he did was or was not kept on record. I'm saying it can and does happen. It's not impossible for something horrible to happen to your child in daycare and it never be reported. OP took him to several places for help, she tried. Did she try enough? It seems as though she didn't or she just didn't know any better.
<blockquote><b>Quoting Jennybananna:</b>" Yes but as you already stated daycares dont always do what they have to or should do. They kicked him ... [snip!] ... you have pushed until someone did something and do everything within your power to never put another child in harms way? "</blockquote>
Yes I would. Unfortunately that's not everyone. And sometimes not until it's too late.
<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" Or the light didn't go off until he threatened her unborn child. And no, I'm not mad. It is however incredibly frustrating to see someone defend their own assumptions. "</blockquote>
I'm not defending anything. I'm pointing out how you can't just assume you know every detail of OP's life and her child just based on what she has said.
<blockquote><b>Quoting Jennybananna:</b>" We dont need to know every detail to know it was handled wrong. Not having the sense to push is not a ... [snip!] ... think oh ok yea I can see her side. Where there is a will there is a way and simply not having a will sooner is not excusable. "</blockquote>
It was handled wrong, yes. By how many people, we don't know. Obviously the doctors had her try out different meds as she said. That's trial and error, it takes a lot of time. Unfortunately it seems that this shit was happening during the course of her trying different treatments. It's very sad that nothing has helped him so far. I'd like to hear more from OP about why this wasn't done sooner but I'm not going to be a dick about it. If she comes back and says, yup I knew he needed to go to inpatient I just didn't do it. Then by all means, I'll be the first to say sorry I was wrong, go ahead and tell her how she fucked up. But until then, no I'm not going to think its ok to make her feel worse.
. But until then, no I'm not going to think its ok to make her feel worse."
I agree with this whole thing.
edit: again BG wouldn't let me quote properly, but I am quoting her whole comment......