MotherFalcon~35weeks! Due January 1; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Lake Arrowhead, CA, United States 2292 posts19th Jul
Quoting ☮HippyMama☮:" They don't, we're just another paycheck taking up a bed that could be used for a new paycheck. All they ... [snip!] ... like waiting so long. I was like "yep glad I'm having a homebirth" and he just kinda looked at me. I don't think he believes me"omfg im so sorry he said that shit. that makes me really sad.
Very happy for your homebirth with MW!
Mommy to 1 sweet boy! 1 child; 33 posts19th Jul
I'm thankful my doctor didn't give me an episiotomy although I begged while I was pushing him out to cut me open to do anything since my epidural wore off :evil: lol. He told me I could do it without having to be cut, thankfully he didn't!
user banned Due October 22; 17 kids; Dildo, 4998 posts19th Jul
Quoting MotherFalcon~16weeks!:" omfg im so sorry he said that shit. that makes me really sad. Very happy for your homebirth with MW!"
I'm excited, it's gonna be a water birth and SO is catching the baby and cutting the cord and Noah can come in the tub with me :)
you made a change in my l 17 kids; Anaheim, California 424 posts20th Jul
Quoting Kass.:" My water broke and only 40 hours later did they strongly suggest a c section for the first time. I asked ... [snip!] ... the c section but I already went too long. I ended up with an infection and had to stay in the hospital a week. It was rough."
Sounds like mine except they broke my water at 4 cm didn't even tell me and until I asked what she was doing and had to have a c section 12 hrs after being induced because I was getting an infection from my water being broken so long. Worst experience of my life, I was in so much pain I didn't even have the mental, emotional, or psychical strength to hold my son right when he was born.
Ah oh spaghetti O 2 kids; Indio, CA, United States 1712 posts20th Jul
You no lie described my doctor with my first son :( I was in labor for 12 hours and at a 7 1/2 cm he got tired of "waiting" so he told me he would give 2 hrs if I didn't have my son by then he would give me a c-section anyway. I didn't fight for myself and I got the c-section which I will regret for the rest of my life! I feel robbed of something that was supposed to be special.