Quoting ☮HippyMama☮:" They don't, we're just another paycheck taking up a bed that could be used for a new paycheck. All they ... [snip!] ... like waiting so long. I was like "yep glad I'm having a homebirth" and he just kinda looked at me. I don't think he believes me"
omfg im so sorry he said that shit. that makes me really sad.
Very happy for your homebirth with MW!
I'm thankful my doctor didn't give me an episiotomy although I begged while I was pushing him out to cut me open to do anything since my epidural wore off :evil: lol. He told me I could do it without having to be cut, thankfully he didn't!
Quoting MotherFalcon~16weeks!:" omfg im so sorry he said that shit. that makes me really sad. Very happy for your homebirth with MW!"
I'm excited, it's gonna be a water birth and SO is catching the baby and cutting the cord and Noah can come in the tub with me :)
Quoting Kass.:" My water broke and only 40 hours later did they strongly suggest a c section for the first time. I asked ... [snip!] ... the c section but I already went too long. I ended up with an infection and had to stay in the hospital a week. It was rough."
Sounds like mine except they broke my water at 4 cm didn't even tell me and until I asked what she was doing and had to have a c section 12 hrs after being induced because I was getting an infection from my water being broken so long. Worst experience of my life, I was in so much pain I didn't even have the mental, emotional, or psychical strength to hold my son right when he was born.
You no lie described my doctor with my first son :( I was in labor for 12 hours and at a 7 1/2 cm he got tired of "waiting" so he told me he would give 2 hrs if I didn't have my son by then he would give me a c-section anyway. I didn't fight for myself and I got the c-section which I will regret for the rest of my life! I feel robbed of something that was supposed to be special.