A is Me 1 child; South Carolina 3782 posts
24th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Totheendandback:</b>" Umm being sympathetic to people who are extremely mean to you is difficult, I am not going to pretend ... [snip!] ... not treat people that way. And how can one "flaunt" their pregnancy lol I just show up to work pregnant not flaunting anything."</blockquote>




Being empathetic is part of being a mature adult, and an even bigger part of being a parent.
How old are you, like sixteen? I only bring up your age because you're acting like a dramatic teenager about this.
How could you wish infertility on ANYONE, even your worst enemy?

user banned 2 kids; Silly, Belgium 6539 posts
24th Jul '13

Aren't you giving your baby up for adoption, anyway?

K and N TTC since Nov 2012; 2 kids; Denver City, Texas 1890 posts
24th Jul '13
Quoting Bob Loblaw _tko_:" How do you know they haven't struggled with miscarriages or something? You can't act like you know ... [snip!] ... the type. I mean, going around just wishing for people to never have kids and all. What makes you any better than they are? "


:?::!: This.

Haysensmommytobe Japan 62 posts
24th Jul '13

She said a mean thing but like no one has ever done that, she took it back also being bullied is hard and she is having a hard time dealing with it! give advice on how to deal with it no need to jump on someone saying they are tired of being picked on.



OP I am sorry but please take the higher ground, and talk to someone about these people keep your brother informed and make sure HR does know about the coworker not going to jump on you, see no need for that IGNORE PEOPLE doing such a thing.

K and N TTC since Nov 2012; 2 kids; Denver City, Texas 1890 posts
24th Jul '13
Quoting Totheendandback:" umm because they are bullies why would I want that person to be a parent... these women are very ... [snip!] ... told his wife to back off of me maybe I do not wish them to never have a baby but not anytime soon behaving in that way"


From the way that you are behaving, someone should have wished for you to "not have a baby any time soon." Sounds like you need to grow up a little.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36509 posts
24th Jul '13
Quoting Bob Loblaw _tko_:" Aren't you giving your baby up for adoption, anyway?"


Did you guys ever thought that is the reason why she is acting the way that she is acting? And why would she want to flaunt a pregnancy that she is only going to give up?

Totheendandback Due November 17; Japan 206 posts
24th Jul '13
Quoting Haysensmommytobe:" She said a mean thing but like no one has ever done that, she took it back also being bullied is hard ... [snip!] ... and make sure HR does know about the coworker not going to jump on you, see no need for that IGNORE PEOPLE doing such a thing."



Thank you for understanding, trying to work and be able to keep my son afterall and have to deal with this woman who seems so emotionally invested in being rude/picking on me. And she is so much older than me looked up to her talked to her about being homeless and other things then out of nowhere she is beyond mean to me 0_o



do not get it

T + H = My World 2 kids; 1 angel baby; United Kingdom 3443 posts
24th Jul '13

for a woman to say that about another woman she must have been really provoked which leaves me wondering in what way have they bullied you OP

user banned 2 kids; Silly, Belgium 6539 posts
24th Jul '13
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Did you guys ever thought that is the reason why she is acting the way that she is acting? And why would she want to flaunt a pregnancy that she is only going to give up? "


I didn't even recognize her until after the fact. Who knows why she's acting that way. I have nothing against mothers who give up their kid for adoption, it's a mature and responsible decision. But someone who is doing so has no right to say who should and shouldn't be parents. Maybe that's why her co-worker and SIL are so jealous, because she has an unwanted pregnancy that she's going to give up to someone else, and they struggle with TTC. It goes both ways, you know.

A is Me 1 child; South Carolina 3782 posts
24th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Totheendandback:</b>" Thank you for understanding, trying to work and be able to keep my son afterall and have to deal with ... [snip!] ... up to her talked to her about being homeless and other things then out of nowhere she is beyond mean to me 0_o do not get it"</blockquote>




Working your minimum wage job for the next few months is not gonna be enough to support a baby, just sayin'.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36509 posts
24th Jul '13
Quoting Totheendandback:" Thank you for understanding, trying to work and be able to keep my son afterall and have to deal with ... [snip!] ... up to her talked to her about being homeless and other things then out of nowhere she is beyond mean to me 0_o do not get it"


You are going to keep him? Have you applied for FS and assistance?

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36509 posts
24th Jul '13
Quoting Bob Loblaw _tko_:" I didn't even recognize her until after the fact. Who knows why she's acting that way. I have nothing ... [snip!] ... an unwanted pregnancy that she's going to give up to someone else, and they struggle with TTC. It goes both ways, you know. "


I know but who knows what they have said to her to make her feel this way.

A is Me 1 child; South Carolina 3782 posts
24th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Totheendandback:</b>" Thank you for understanding, trying to work and be able to keep my son afterall and have to deal with ... [snip!] ... up to her talked to her about being homeless and other things then out of nowhere she is beyond mean to me 0_o do not get it"</blockquote>




Maybe because she doesn't think YOU are fit to be a parent right now. No, it isn't right of her to pick on you at all. But you sho

K and N TTC since Nov 2012; 2 kids; Denver City, Texas 1890 posts
24th Jul '13
Quoting Bob Loblaw _tko_:" I didn't even recognize her until after the fact. Who knows why she's acting that way. I have nothing ... [snip!] ... an unwanted pregnancy that she's going to give up to someone else, and they struggle with TTC. It goes both ways, you know. "


This is so true.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36509 posts
24th Jul '13
Quoting T + H = My World:" for a woman to say that about another woman she must have been really provoked which leaves me wondering in what way have they bullied you OP"


I think the same thing.