A is Me 1 child; South Carolina 3782 posts
24th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting A is Me:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Totheendandback:</b>" Thank you for understanding, trying ... [snip!] ... because she doesn't think YOU are fit to be a parent right now. No, it isn't right of her to pick on you at all. But you sho"</blockquote>



*** but you should at least try to understand the root of her behavior towards you.
She is older, has a stable life and is wishing for a baby. Then here comes this immature teenager who doesn't have her shit together, talking about giving her baby up for adoption.... Yea, her feelings of resentment towards you are understandable. But, her behavior (being mean to you) isn't.
I would say sit down and talk with her, but you seem way too immature to do that without it turning into a fight.
Good luck.

Totheendandback Due November 17; Japan 206 posts
24th Jul '13

so they are TTC that gives them the right? I did nothing to them I have nothing to do with that.



also Picking on me talking about me, lying on me at work trying to get me fired, confronting me angrily about things I did not even do or did on accident to the point it seems like it can turn into a fight physically




and my sister in law just makes drama with me, picks on me to and tries to tell me family things about me to piss them off




I confided in these women so they know a bit about me and throw me being homeless in my face and tell others what I told them in private thinking they were my friends



also I know a minimum wage job is not a lot at least I am trying, I also get assistance will continue to try

[BLB] is Expecting! Due January 22; TTC since Jun 2012; 1 child; 3 angel babies; Hasty, Colorado 16752 posts
24th Jul '13
Quoting Totheendandback:" so they are TTC that gives them the right? I did nothing to them I have nothing to do with that. also ... [snip!] ... were my friends also I know a minimum wage job is not a lot at least I am trying, I also get assistance will continue to try"

Maybe you missed my advice. Talk to HR about the issues at work. If disagreements are so volatile that they may become physical that is a huge issue.

K and N TTC since Nov 2012; 2 kids; Denver City, Texas 1890 posts
24th Jul '13
Quoting A is Me:" <blockquote><b>Quoting A is Me:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Totheendandback:</b>" ... [snip!] ... I would say sit down and talk with her, but you seem way too immature to do that without it turning into a fight. Good luck."


This, and OP already stated that she does not care what the other lady is going through. Very narcissistic, and without some desire to understand the other person, nothing is going to get solved.



ETA: I think the best advice at this point would be to contact HR abut the issue at work, especially if it's to the point where you are afraid things are going to get physical.

Haysensmommytobe Japan 62 posts
24th Jul '13

some of this is just cruel and uncalled for she is a homeless pregnant kid, she said one wrong thing



OP use the ignore button think it would be best..some people get off on saying these things to certain people

user banned 2 kids; Silly, Belgium 6539 posts
24th Jul '13
Quoting Haysensmommytobe:" some of this is just cruel and uncalled for she is a homeless pregnant kid, she said one wrong thing ... [snip!] ... one wrong thing OP use the ignore button think it would be best..some people get off on saying these things to certain people"


Oh, I didn't know being a homeless, pregnant teenager gave you a free pass to be a self-entitled b***h.



Oh how the world has changed.

K and N TTC since Nov 2012; 2 kids; Denver City, Texas 1890 posts
24th Jul '13
Quoting Haysensmommytobe:" some of this is just cruel and uncalled for she is a homeless pregnant kid, she said one wrong thing ... [snip!] ... one wrong thing OP use the ignore button think it would be best..some people get off on saying these things to certain people"


Not everybody researches the OP's history or checks out the profile when responding to posts. She wished infertility on women who are TTC, I have a problem with that. She is getting good advice, regardless of what everyone thinks about her insensitive, nasty comment. Get off you high horse.

Totheendandback Due November 17; Japan 206 posts
24th Jul '13
Quoting Haysensmommytobe:" some of this is just cruel and uncalled for she is a homeless pregnant kid, she said one wrong thing ... [snip!] ... one wrong thing OP use the ignore button think it would be best..some people get off on saying these things to certain people"



thank you I do have them on ignore, this is why most do not come forward and say they are picked on



I get they have issues we all do but I am not going to sit there and try and understand these adult women and their hate for me as they treat me the way they do, I just keep my mouth shut and stay away



scared a bit of them

[BLB] is Expecting! Due January 22; TTC since Jun 2012; 1 child; 3 angel babies; Hasty, Colorado 16752 posts
24th Jul '13
Quoting Totheendandback:" thank you I do have them on ignore, this is why most do not come forward and say they are picked on ... [snip!] ... women and their hate for me as they treat me the way they do, I just keep my mouth shut and stay away scared a bit of them"


I think you're a troll because you are ignoring the GOOD advice you are being given and focusing on drama. Just saying. Also, your friend you are talking to types a lot like you do. Must be a teenage thing?

user banned 2 kids; Silly, Belgium 6539 posts
24th Jul '13
Quoting [BLB] is TTC:" I think you're a troll because you are ignoring the GOOD advice you are being given and focusing on ... [snip!] ... and focusing on drama. Just saying. Also, your friend you are talking to types a lot like you do. Must be a teenage thing?"


:lol: :lol:

Haysensmommytobe Japan 62 posts
24th Jul '13
Quoting Totheendandback:" thank you I do have them on ignore, this is why most do not come forward and say they are picked on ... [snip!] ... women and their hate for me as they treat me the way they do, I just keep my mouth shut and stay away scared a bit of them"



Good :)



Jealousy is ugly, it is natural but to be mean to someone is not right and it is not your job to understand people being mean to you. If they approach you in a aggressive manner call 911 and let them know you are pregnant and someone is threatening you in a physical way hun!



feel for you hope you find a home and a home for your little one soon.

[BLB] is Expecting! Due January 22; TTC since Jun 2012; 1 child; 3 angel babies; Hasty, Colorado 16752 posts
24th Jul '13
Quoting Bob Loblaw _tko_:" :lol: :lol:"

How many times can I suggest the same thing and have it overlooked by OP so she can respond to the drama? It's clear she doesn't want sound advice.



OP, I'll say it AGAIN. HR can help you with the work related issues. I was trying to be kind and helpful.

K and N TTC since Nov 2012; 2 kids; Denver City, Texas 1890 posts
24th Jul '13
Quoting [BLB] is TTC:" I think you're a troll because you are ignoring the GOOD advice you are being given and focusing on ... [snip!] ... and focusing on drama. Just saying. Also, your friend you are talking to types a lot like you do. Must be a teenage thing?"


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user banned 2 kids; Silly, Belgium 6539 posts
24th Jul '13
Quoting [BLB] is TTC:" How many times can I suggest the same thing and have it overlooked by OP so she can respond to the drama? ... [snip!] ... want sound advice. OP, I'll say it AGAIN. HR can help you with the work related issues. I was trying to be kind and helpful. "


I think we're on ignore. :lol:

[BLB] is Expecting! Due January 22; TTC since Jun 2012; 1 child; 3 angel babies; Hasty, Colorado 16752 posts
24th Jul '13
Quoting Bob Loblaw _tko_:" I think we're on ignore. :lol:"


*sigh*