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Bangarang 10 kids; Muthafuckin, GA, United States 26708 posts
26th Jul '13
Quoting Now and Forever:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mamaof3cuties:</b>" You shouldn't have to force a man into wanting ... [snip!] ... you feel, because he'll feel pressured, forced, mad, etc. then you REALLY shouldn't be in a relationship with that person. IMO."


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If proposing is forcing, then men force women to marry them all the time. A man is just as obligated to accept a proposal as a woman. I kind of want to propose just out of spite now :lol: I told SO about this thread and read some of the replies and he was flabbergasted. "This is a site full of self-proclaimed feminists who don't know what feminism IS."
Maybe I'll do what Pink did and take a sign to his event next month and hold it up after it's over. Only if he wins, though :lol:

Mamaof3cuties Due March 9; Pennsylvania 91 posts
26th Jul '13
Quoting Now and Forever:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mamaof3cuties:</b>" You shouldn't have to force a man into wanting ... [snip!] ... you feel, because he'll feel pressured, forced, mad, etc. then you REALLY shouldn't be in a relationship with that person. IMO."


I meant to type you shouldn't have to drop hints, not should.

user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
26th Jul '13

Lol. Proposing =/= forcing. Some men LIKE women who take the initiative and aren't afraid to be upfront about what they want.

Bangarang 10 kids; Muthafuckin, GA, United States 26708 posts
26th Jul '13
Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift Ph.D:" Lol. Proposing =/= forcing. Some men LIKE women who take the initiative and aren't afraid to be upfront about what they want. "


Mine is definitely like that. He's very submissive. I mean hell, I was the one who went after him when we met. I grew on him but he was attracted to the fact that I knew what I wanted and I was going to get it dammit! He's the only guy I've ever chased.

ℕightingale 1 child; Mississippi 7922 posts
status 26th Jul '13
Quoting Mamaof3cuties:" You shouldn't have to force a man into wanting to marry you. You should have to drop hints, etc. If he ... [snip!] ... hints, etc. If he wants to marry you he will. Don't try to force a man to marry you who doesn't want to. Divorce isn't fun. "


LMAO. WTH is wrong with you? So when a man proposes he's forcing you to marry him I guess :lol:

Bangarang 10 kids; Muthafuckin, GA, United States 26708 posts
26th Jul '13
Quoting Mamaof3cuties:" I meant to type you shouldn't have to drop hints, not should."


Did your husband force you to marry him because you wouldn't drop hints or ask him or be passive aggressive about it?

user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
26th Jul '13
Quoting Gubler:" Mine is definitely like that. He's very submissive. I mean hell, I was the one who went after him when ... [snip!] ... he was attracted to the fact that I knew what I wanted and I was going to get it dammit! He's the only guy I've ever chased."


I definitely chased my husband a bit. I let him know I was interested, and I let him know I was ready to get serious. We decided together to get married.



It definitely wasn't out of desperation that I chased him, either. I've never had a lack of interested men in my life. This chick sounds bitter about something.

user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
26th Jul '13
Quoting Gubler:" Did your husband force you to marry him because you wouldn't drop hints or ask him or be passive aggressive about it?"


Doubt it, she's "in a relationship" :lol::lol::lol:

Bangarang 10 kids; Muthafuckin, GA, United States 26708 posts
26th Jul '13
Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift Ph.D:" I definitely chased my husband a bit. I let him know I was interested, and I let him know I was ready ... [snip!] ... that I chased him, either. I've never had a lack of interested men in my life. This chick sounds bitter about something. "


For sure. I don't think there's been a time in my postpubescent life where I didn't have a dude trying to get with me. But I enjoyed the chase. It was definitely worth it.
I wonder if this lady actually isn't married and he won't propose :lol:

Bangarang 10 kids; Muthafuckin, GA, United States 26708 posts
26th Jul '13
Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift Ph.D:" Doubt it, she's "in a relationship" :lol::lol::lol:"


:twisted: IT ALL MAKES SENSE NOW.

user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
26th Jul '13
Quoting Gubler:" For sure. I don't think there's been a time in my postpubescent life where I didn't have a dude trying ... [snip!] ... But I enjoyed the chase. It was definitely worth it. I wonder if this lady actually isn't married and he won't propose :lol:"

Or had a bad divorce and now she's dating at around my age after 3 babies and fishing for quality in a used up pool.

Bangarang 10 kids; Muthafuckin, GA, United States 26708 posts
26th Jul '13
Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift Ph.D:" Or had a bad divorce and now she's dating at around my age after 3 babies and fishing for quality in a used up pool. "


Maybe if she hadn't forced the man to marry her she'd be happily with him still :lol:
Divorce sucks, but I can't see my possible [not likely] proposal being the reason. More like he would realize that he's way too hot for me and JoJo hit on him in a bar and she's on his to do list.

user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
26th Jul '13
Quoting Gubler:" Maybe if she hadn't forced the man to marry her she'd be happily with him still :lol: Divorce sucks, ... [snip!] ... the reason. More like he would realize that he's way too hot for me and JoJo hit on him in a bar and she's on his to do list."


Ha ha! You guys are equal hotness.



And seriously in whose whacked out brain does the type of proposal affect how long/if the marriage will last?



Somebody should have done her kegels.

Bangarang 10 kids; Muthafuckin, GA, United States 26708 posts
26th Jul '13
Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift Ph.D:" Ha ha! You guys are equal hotness. And seriously in whose whacked out brain does the type of proposal affect how long/if the marriage will last? Somebody should have done her kegels. "


:lol:
If the man doesn't propose, the woman doesn't feel obligated to give him grateful blow jobs and the marriage will fall apart.

Mamaof3cuties Due March 9; Pennsylvania 91 posts
26th Jul '13

Wow, you're a bunch of nasty bitches aren't ya! LOL



I was married, and divorced. I am now engaged. Would you like any more information or do you prefer to make assumptions?