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Showing my greedy ugly side I guess... GirlsHaveCOOTIES 3 kids; Minsk, Belarus 15331 posts
26th Jul

Is it wrong of me to be counting down to my August 5th due date? I'm getting sadder and sadder as the day gets closer. I should be due in 10 days not 81 Don't get me wrong, I am soooooo thankful and so in love with Oliver already. I understand that if it weren't for that loss I wouldn't be growing this already amazing little man. I know I shouldn't let it get to me but I am having a hard time letting go of the what-ifs.. The bad and the good I guess, That baby could have had serious issues or possibly not have survived birth.



My first 2 losses were hard but not devastating like this one for some reason.. I feel like a complete jack ass right now.

Klaus 2 kids; Mississippi 23429 posts
status 26th Jul

Its not wrong of you! It's perfectly okay to be excited about your current pregnancy but still grieve for your loss. *hugs*

Squeaky McGee 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Indiana 63826 posts
26th Jul
Quoting Klaus:" Its not wrong of you! It's perfectly okay to be excited about your current pregnancy but still grieve for your loss. *hugs*"


This.

GirlsHaveCOOTIES 3 kids; Minsk, Belarus 15331 posts
26th Jul
Quoting Klaus:" Its not wrong of you! It's perfectly okay to be excited about your current pregnancy but still grieve for your loss. *hugs*"


I feel like right now i'm robbing this baby of the excitement because i'm down about the baby that 'should' have been born soon.. I feel pretty rotten about it.

GavinsMomJohnnysWife 2 kids; Texas 2789 posts
26th Jul
Quoting Klaus:" Its not wrong of you! It's perfectly okay to be excited about your current pregnancy but still grieve for your loss. *hugs*"


:!::!: Good luck mama, I hope things get easier for you.

GirlsHaveCOOTIES 3 kids; Minsk, Belarus 15331 posts
26th Jul
Quoting GavinsMomJohnnysWife:" :!::!: Good luck mama, I hope things get easier for you."


Thank you.. I just want the day to come and go right now.

Sock Lady 6 kids; 3 angel babies; Hell, ON, Canada 11727 posts
26th Jul

I'm so sorry hun. *hugs*



But no, what you're feeling is not wrong. I'd say it is completely normal for you to be feeling this way, and is part of the grieving process.



I hope that things get easier for you!