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TMI Spermies B★B's Mama 2 kids; :), Tx, United States 11779 posts
27th Jul '13

What can I do to stop the semen from running out after bding? The next morning after bding I sometimes have it running down my leg. Will this hurt my chances of concieving? I want as much spermies to stay inside.

Addi's Momma Due January 23; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Florissant, Missouri 5298 posts
27th Jul '13

They are fast little creatures so it isn't sperm that is coming out. It is probably just the juices they come in and a little bit of you.

~Manda Panda +3 1/2~ 16 kids; Arkansas 39074 posts
27th Jul '13
Quoting Addi's Momma:" They are fast little creatures so it isn't sperm that is coming out. It is probably just the juices they come in and a little bit of you."


This. By next morning they're long gone doing business. As far as right after (even though those are still fast and move quick. They're job is to swim against gravity) you can use instead cups. They're disposable menstrual cups some women use while ttc to keep the goods close. Plus less mess after which was the highlight for me lol

b.red Due August 9; 2 kids; 2 posts
27th Jul '13

If it's running out right after sex.Your cervix is not open enough for the deposit to get in. So you can try laying on your back with your legs up close to your chest. Put a couple pillows under your bum to help keep you in this position. If it only seems to be running out the following morning , i wouldn't worry to much about it. The only time I have concieved is when it didn't just all fall out after words :/

B★B's Mama 2 kids; :), Tx, United States 11779 posts
27th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting b.red:</b>" If it's running out right after sex.Your cervix is not open enough for the deposit to get in. So you ... [snip!] ... morning , i wouldn't worry to much about it. The only time I have concieved is when it didn't just all fall out after words :/"</blockquote>




Yes it only happens the next morning

Mama Van D Due November 3; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Unity, Maine 2454 posts
27th Jul '13

Yeahhhhhhh....



See, what I did when I conceived DS I laid down for like 5 minutes and then took a shower. Because, ew.

B★B's Mama 2 kids; :), Tx, United States 11779 posts
27th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama Van D:</b>" Yeahhhhhhh.... See, what I did when I conceived DS I laid down for like 5 minutes and then took a shower. Because, ew."</blockquote>




Yes its not quite appealing to have that stuff coming out. It grosses me out every time. Even after a shower it comes out im like ugh!

Mama Van D Due November 3; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Unity, Maine 2454 posts
27th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥Mama Dee♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mama Van D:</b>" Yeahhhhhhh.... See, what I did when I conceived ... [snip!] ... not quite appealing to have that stuff coming out. It grosses me out every time. Even after a shower it comes out im like ugh!"</blockquote>




Right? Nastiest thing ever.

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
27th Jul '13

Semen and sperm are not the same. The fluid coming out is probably just seminal fluid, the sperm probably gets past the cervix.

B★B's Mama 2 kids; :), Tx, United States 11779 posts
27th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting The Original Mayhem.:</b>" Semen and sperm are not the same. The fluid coming out is probably just seminal fluid, the sperm probably gets past the cervix."</blockquote>




Lol I just learnt something I shoulf have known ty

Nut ღ Meg Beverly Hills, CA, United States 40239 posts
27th Jul '13

I think in a post prior to this one someone suggested soft cups. You didn't want to give those a try?

B★B's Mama 2 kids; :), Tx, United States 11779 posts
27th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Meg ღ ღ:</b>" I think in a post prior to this one someone suggested soft cups. You didn't want to give those a try?"</blockquote>




Im a give it a shot

*Ay&Ryker's Mommy* Due January 14 (boy); 1 child; Kentucky 364 posts
28th Jul '13

When I was TTC, I'm pretty sure I know when I conceived. Right after, I laid on the couch and put my legs over the side and tilted my hips upward to help the gravitational pull haha. Im pretty positive that's what did the trick for me.