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hanging your baby/toddler upside down(question) BeautifullyDoomed 2 kids; Corpus Christi, 456 posts
28th Jul '13

Heres a back story
I made the mistake of posting a picture of my SO hanging my 9 month old upside down(which he only held her like tat for less than 10 seconds). Well my now ex friend I talked about the other day about competing against me decided to comment on that picture. She said " that's abuse letting a man hang your 9 month old upside down, Its abuse that you do it to your toddler too and James's hands are squishing her legs and she looks terrified." My dd2 had a huge smile on her face in that picture, and while I took the picture she was giggling so hard. Well now she said she is going to call cps on me for letting my SO "abuse" my 9 month old. The baby that considers this man her father and vice versa since she was born. Also she said while she does that she is going to tell them I don't feed dd1 that she is mal nourished and I never keep my kids clothes. Um well my kids hate clothes they love being naked or in just panties or diaper. AND I feed my dd1, we have to literally sit right next to her or she refuses to eat and not only that but we have toddler formula we give her and she receives pediasure on wic. and I have witness that she wasn't freaking out when the picture was taken cause we were at my nephews birthday party, so I have nothing to hide and im not taking the picture down!



So my question is how do you ladies feel about holding your baby or toddler upside down?

penispenispenisVAGINA 4 kids; Idaho 7116 posts
28th Jul '13

There's NOTHING wrong with it as long as it's not for long periods of time! If they aren't scared there's no problem. People are fucking stupid now days! I'd tell your ex friend to go fuck herself. It's not child abuse!

BeautifullyDoomed 2 kids; Corpus Christi, 456 posts
28th Jul '13
Quoting ♥ my~boysX3+1♥:" There's NOTHING wrong with it as long as it's not for long periods of time! If they aren't scared there's ... [snip!] ... there's no problem. People are fucking stupid now days! I'd tell your ex friend to go fuck herself. It's not child abuse!"



I did and blocked her on fb. shes the only person I know with a child that thinks its "abuse"

Lauralie89 3 kids; Pennsylvania 2244 posts
28th Jul '13

My SO does it when he's horsing around with the boys. Nothing wrong with it. People are so quick to call CPS on people they're angry with and I wish those people got in trouble when they do it.

user banned Vancouver, British Columbia 5643 posts
28th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ my~boysX3+1♥:</b>" There's NOTHING wrong with it as long as it's not for long periods of time! If they aren't scared there's ... [snip!] ... there's no problem. People are fucking stupid now days! I'd tell your ex friend to go fuck herself. It's not child abuse!"</blockquote>



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penispenispenisVAGINA 4 kids; Idaho 7116 posts
28th Jul '13
Quoting BeautifullyDoomed:" I did and blocked her on fb. shes the only person I know with a child that thinks its "abuse""


She's fucking stupid!! Everyone hangs their kids upside down one point in their life.

ℕightingale 1 child; Mississippi 7944 posts
status 28th Jul '13

I wouldn't do it to an infant but I do it to DD once in a while when we play and no I don't think it's abuse.

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49340 posts
28th Jul '13

She's stupid and as long as you aren't doing anything wrong cps will laugh at her

3&Me 3 kids; Australia 982 posts
28th Jul '13

There's nothing with any of that.
She wouldn't be laughing if it was upsetting or hurting her... She will eat if she is hungry... Lots of babies and toddlers love to be naked, it's so much easier to say fine... Be naked lol who cares if they're comfortable.
What a bitter, stupid bitch.

penispenispenisVAGINA 4 kids; Idaho 7116 posts
28th Jul '13

I'd throat punch a bitch!

BeautifullyDoomed 2 kids; Corpus Christi, 456 posts
28th Jul '13

nothing pisses me off more then when she brings my kids into things. My kids love being upside, pretty sure my 9 month loves it more then my 2&1/2 yr old. Her just saying SO and I abuse my kids has me so pissed that im shaking and now I have a headache ugh

user banned Due October 22 (boy); 17 kids; Dildo, 4998 posts
28th Jul '13

I've been hanging my DS upside down since about 10mos... never for extended periods of time and he's always laughing. I've had people threaten CPS/DCF on me too for him being "malnourished" because he's skinny and just like me when he puts his arms up you can kind of see his ribs. His last 3 pediatricians have all said he's alright with his weight, he's leaner than the majority of his weight group but he's not underweight. Our family is just naturally very lean, and he's a picker... he just eats small things frequently throughout the day. I'd tell your friend she can stick her opinions where the sun don't shine, she sounds like a bitch

Rain (aka Mama) 3 kids; Monroe, Georgia 6487 posts
28th Jul '13

That's all COMPLETELY effing ridiculous.



My kids love hanging upside down. Unless they're not like that for a super long time, there's absolutely nothing wrong with it. And naked kids? So what? It's not neglect. They have clothes, and I'm sure they're not going out in public naked. What a moron. I'd have been so far beyond pissed. :?

Booger & Bubba's Mommy 18 kids; Illinois 8136 posts
28th Jul '13

Did you screen shot it?? You might need proof of her claiming she is going to make false accusations if CPS does show up.

BeautifullyDoomed 2 kids; Corpus Christi, 456 posts
28th Jul '13
Quoting Rain (aka Mama):" That's all COMPLETELY effing ridiculous. My kids love hanging upside down. Unless they're not like ... [snip!] ... They have clothes, and I'm sure they're not going out in public naked. What a moron. I'd have been so far beyond pissed. :?"


my kids hate clothes and there is nothing wrong with being naked! They have tons of clothes but it being so hot here I don't put any of my 9 month old she would sweat like a pig