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MomDIA TTC since May 2008; 81 kids; Warminster, Pennsylvania 3812 posts
2nd Aug '13
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Children don't NEED spanking. That is the way a parent chooses to punish."


Sometimes depending on the child a spanking can be necessary and effective form of discipline for the situation, just because you don't believe in it, doesn't mean it is not an acceptable or effective form of discipline.

MomDIA TTC since May 2008; 81 kids; Warminster, Pennsylvania 3812 posts
2nd Aug '13
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Good Queen Bess 2 kids; Ontario 46058 posts
2nd Aug '13
Quoting MomDIA:" She already humiliated herself by posting naked pictures at that age. Why is it ok for a child to misbehave ... [snip!] ... to misbehave or go to that extreme and embarrass there parents but ?it is crossing a line when a parent does the same to them?"


Have you read some of these news stories about girls killing themselves after naked or half-naked pics of them leaked and they were tormented?



Maybe instead of humiliating her, you may want to talk to her and find out why she has such low self-worth that she feels that doing something like that is right....

Samee Due February 5; 1 child; Lake Jackson, Texas 1869 posts
2nd Aug '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting MomDIA:</b>" She already humiliated herself by posting naked pictures at that age. Why is it ok for a child to misbehave ... [snip!] ... to misbehave or go to that extreme and embarrass there parents but ?it is crossing a line when a parent does the same to them?"</blockquote>




lol. kids these days aren't.. well most... arent going to be embarrassed about something they post intentionally.



you may think differently but in my opinion, if they hold up that sign they sure won't be posting any more photos.



most likely to impress some other kid.

Arks Mama! ಠ_ಠ 1 child; Utah 2401 posts
2nd Aug '13
Quoting MomDIA:" She already humiliated herself by posting naked pictures at that age. Why is it ok for a child to misbehave ... [snip!] ... to misbehave or go to that extreme and embarrass there parents but ?it is crossing a line when a parent does the same to them?"


It's definitely not ok.. on either parts IMO. I wouldn't like to go through school being called a slut at every turn, or lose my friends because of something stupid I did. I think taking away the computer for a while would be a much better punishment.

Arks Mama! ಠ_ಠ 1 child; Utah 2401 posts
2nd Aug '13
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Have you read some of these news stories about girls killing themselves after naked or half-naked pics ... [snip!] ... may want to talk to her and find out why she has such low self-worth that she feels that doing something like that is right...."


Completely agree!

Good Queen Bess 2 kids; Ontario 46058 posts
2nd Aug '13
Quoting MomDIA:" Sometimes depending on the child a spanking can be necessary and effective form of discipline for the ... [snip!] ... for the situation, just because you don't believe in it, doesn't mean it is not an acceptable or effective form of discipline."


Children do not need to be hit to be shown that their behaviour is inappropriate.

Samee Due February 5; 1 child; Lake Jackson, Texas 1869 posts
2nd Aug '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Arks Mama! ಠ_ಠ:</b>" It's definitely not ok.. on either parts IMO. I wouldn't like to go through school being called a slut ... [snip!] ... my friends because of something stupid I did. I think taking away the computer for a while would be a much better punishment. "</blockquote>




if you're a child living at home... there is NO reason to even take inappropriate photos.



much less posting them online.




if they post the photos online they obviously want someone to see.them. theyre taking the risk right there.or.others judging them.

MomDIA TTC since May 2008; 81 kids; Warminster, Pennsylvania 3812 posts
2nd Aug '13
Quoting Arks Mama! ಠ_ಠ:" It's definitely not ok.. on either parts IMO. I wouldn't like to go through school being called a slut ... [snip!] ... my friends because of something stupid I did. I think taking away the computer for a while would be a much better punishment. "


That is my point though if you are saying the parents shouldn't and it is wrong it is clearly wrong for the child as well. These parents choose this discipline and if it is effective to the situation at hand and the children aren't being abused, which i dont believe embarrassment is abuse then it is no ones business but the parent and the childs.

Samee Due February 5; 1 child; Lake Jackson, Texas 1869 posts
2nd Aug '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting speaktruth2powr:</b>" Children do not need to be hit to be shown that their behaviour is inappropriate. "</blockquote>




in your opinion.

MomDIA TTC since May 2008; 81 kids; Warminster, Pennsylvania 3812 posts
2nd Aug '13
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Children do not need to be hit to be shown that their behaviour is inappropriate. "


that is your opinion, not fact.

Jenny&Boopy TTC since Jul 2014; 2 kids; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 7355 posts
2nd Aug '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting speaktruth2powr:</b>" Children do not need to be hit to be shown that their behaviour is inappropriate. "</blockquote>




Sometimes they do. DS did last night. Sometimes some children simply do not respond to anything else.

Good Queen Bess 2 kids; Ontario 46058 posts
2nd Aug '13
Quoting MomDIA:" that is your opinion, not fact."


Just as yours is an opinion.

Good Queen Bess 2 kids; Ontario 46058 posts
2nd Aug '13
Quoting Samee:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Arks Mama! ಠ_ಠ:</b>" It's definitely not ok.. on ... [snip!] ... post the photos online they obviously want someone to see.them. theyre taking the risk right there.or.others judging them."


Uh, perhaps those photos are a cry for help....a sign of something much deeper going on.

Arks Mama! ಠ_ಠ 1 child; Utah 2401 posts
2nd Aug '13
Quoting MomDIA:" That is my point though if you are saying the parents shouldn't and it is wrong it is clearly wrong ... [snip!] ... aren't being abused, which i dont believe embarrassment is abuse then it is no ones business but the parent and the childs."


Its technically emotional abuse, especially in the long run.