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A & T + 2♡ 2 kids; Kansas 19247 posts
2nd Aug '13
Quoting S ♥ J ♥ L:" She knows all of that. I know she would try, it just wouldn't happen. She would slip and relapse. Its ... [snip!] ... happy for her when she tells me she might be pregnant. She just doesn't get what she's getting herself into. She's an idiot. "


That's sad. :( so very sad.. I wouldn't necessarily call her an idiot, she's just sucked up in the drugs right now. She isn't thinking clearly because of them. That's how addicts are, very selfish people. I hope she doesn't get pregnant until she can finally get clean and stay clean.

S ♥ J ♥ L 1 child; 3 angel babies; Philadelphia, PA, United States 3835 posts
2nd Aug '13
Quoting Minion:" <blockquote><b>Quoting S ♥ J ♥ L:</b>" That's such a shame. I just think ... [snip!] ... And if she's tests positive when the baby is born they'll take it away at the hospital. I feel so bad for the potential baby."


She's knows all of this. I tell her all of the time. She swears she can do it. But she's just shown me in the past she can't.



She thought she was pregnant months ago, and was still using up until she went to the doctor for a blood test.



I feel horrible about the whole situation. Like I said, I know she would ask me to be the godmother. I don't think I could handle all of that knowing what could potentially happen.

S ♥ J ♥ L 1 child; 3 angel babies; Philadelphia, PA, United States 3835 posts
2nd Aug '13
Quoting Minion:" <blockquote><b>Quoting S ♥ J ♥ L:</b>" That's such a shame. I just think ... [snip!] ... And if she's tests positive when the baby is born they'll take it away at the hospital. I feel so bad for the potential baby."


Ans her mom is an avid user. So she knows exactly what it is like. Her mom chose drugs over her a few years back in highschool. She lived with me for a few weeks, and then was sent into a group home because her mom didn't want her and she had no where else to go.

A & T + 2♡ 2 kids; Kansas 19247 posts
2nd Aug '13
Quoting bia.:" Wouldn't they take it as soon as it was born? I have a friend on facebook ( from BG:( ) and she's using, lost all 3 of her kids, but didn't touch it while pregnant (wasn't using then)"


Yes they'd take the baby as soon as s/he was born. Especially using heroin the whole time I'm sure they'd notice the baby acting different during the hospital stay and end up testing the baby. That's what I'm saying, her getting pregnant would be really "pointless" because she wouldn't end up with a baby in the long run anyways. I mean she would once/if she finally got clean. But it'd make more sense to get clean, THEN have a baby.... :(



That's really, really sad. Drugs do horrible things to people. I've been there though, thank god it was all before getting pregnant. That's why I don't judge people who do get sucked in it just because I get it.

S ♥ J ♥ L 1 child; 3 angel babies; Philadelphia, PA, United States 3835 posts
2nd Aug '13
Quoting MJ's Mommy♥:" Yes they'd take the baby as soon as s/he was born. Especially using heroin the whole time I'm sure they'd ... [snip!] ... thank god it was all before getting pregnant. That's why I don't judge people who do get sucked in it just because I get it."


Exactly. I will never judge another person after using for 5 years. It was the worst time in my life. And I am so thankful I did it all before DS. I could never do that to him.