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child support Q user banned
3rd Aug '13

My x left my child and me pregnant to move in with his gf he had been seeing while we were still together lol. She just got a job recently and is an RN. He is a cna and they pay 10.25 an hour here but he will not work now bc he doesnt want a high amount of child support to be allotted at court next month. He baby sits for her so she can work and does nothing to help care for our child or the one on the way. I know he will get visitation even though he is a deadbeat dad and wont pay c/s but they are seperate. My question is how much c/s will he have to pay with zero income and zero bills since his gf and family take care of the loser? I live in wv. I have heard some states base it off of min wage other states its nothing. Our child still needs supported even if he is not working and I think its bull he gets out of his responsibilities.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36477 posts
3rd Aug '13

I know with mine and my exes case they put me down for min, wage. I HOPE that is what they do for you.

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
3rd Aug '13
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" I know with mine and my exes case they put me down for min, wage. I HOPE that is what they do for you. "

its still f**king nothing considering i owe 30k in debt from the 6 year relationship in bills and student loans that fed his fat ass lol. I told his grandma today when he starts paying ill get off my check and just work until i have my baby since you only get 5 years of the shit anyways. She said how will he get a job without a car? im like WTF

Photo Assassin 67 kids; Louisville, Kentucky 1666 posts
3rd Aug '13

Yeah, my BD tried that shit. Too bad the judge took the last pay rate he had and used that.



If they see he quit his job to attempt to remove his responsibility, it will bite him in the ass in the long run.



I know they take both parents incomes inconsideration, so if they add yours plus his last rate of pay, divide it by the percentage he will have them in his care, (if you're paying for child care, insurance, etc. this also gets included), then he will be sentenced to pay it whether he works or not.



Get enough back child support owed, then you're risking your license being taken away, taxes being taken, and of course, eventually jail, where they will make him "work it off".



Good luck!

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
3rd Aug '13

him and his gf got fired for f**king at work they just didnt have physical evidence so fired them within 4 days of each other for bogus reasons.

Good Queen Bess 2 kids; Ontario 45788 posts
3rd Aug '13

It depends.



If he has specialized training and a work history, they may base it off the wages he COULD make.



Do CNAs make substantially more than minimum wage in your area?

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36477 posts
3rd Aug '13
Quoting Mother of Dragons:" its still f**king nothing considering i owe 30k in debt from the 6 year relationship in bills and student ... [snip!] ... until i have my baby since you only get 5 years of the shit anyways. She said how will he get a job without a car? im like WTF"


He has his f**king girlfriend. I mean at least he has her car. He needs to get off his ass... what happens WHEN he gets her pregnant? Is he going to bail then too?



:oops: that is the reason I havent gotten a job and I live in the middle of nowhere. too.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36477 posts
3rd Aug '13
Quoting Mother of Dragons:" him and his gf got fired for f**king at work they just didnt have physical evidence so fired them within 4 days of each other for bogus reasons."


He sounds immature as f**k.

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
3rd Aug '13
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" It depends. If he has specialized training and a work history, they may base it off the wages he COULD make. Do CNAs make substantially more than minimum wage in your area?"

at assisted living communities its normally 7.45 etc but in state ran nursing homes its normally 10.25-10.50 to start but his gf and him got blackballed she got a job in a county over for less pay. he could go to the hospital and they pay 8.50. he is looking at min wage jobs now bc he got blackballed and its less money i can get from him.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36477 posts
3rd Aug '13
Quoting Mother of Dragons:" at assisted living communities its normally 7.45 etc but in state ran nursing homes its normally 10.25-10.50 ... [snip!] ... hospital and they pay 8.50. he is looking at min wage jobs now bc he got blackballed and its less money i can get from him. "


And she has a f**king kid? WOW....

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
3rd Aug '13
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" He sounds immature as f**k. "


he wont admit it. i found love notes from a different girl from when our daughter was 3 months and his friend said my x told him they slept together but he denies it. I am very glad to be rid of him! he gives me tons of excuses. He didnt abandon his kids he just left me. I nagged him too much. well yeah he would work for 3 months and quit and he was a slob. he never once bought me flowers in 6 years. he always said i wont buy you gifts or be romantic but i will always come home to you. now he is telling his new girl that hahaha

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
3rd Aug '13
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" And she has a f**king kid? WOW...."


2 sons 5-8 the 5 year old has autism and the older son is violent and distruptive and he cant wait until court so his gf and boys can meet our daughter. they worked together for about 2 months b4 being fired and have been together for a month and a half in the open. we have only been broken up for a month and a half he moved in with her 2 days after we broke up and fucked her in our house yucko. his last story was the older boy picked up a bat and swung it at his brother

vajayna 18 kids; Kentucky 4552 posts
3rd Aug '13

Here in KY they put them down for minimum wage.



He will be ordered to pay, and when he gets a job, go back and report it.

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
3rd Aug '13

and she let him watch her kids and bath them 2 weeks after starting her shift. I called her a shit mom to him and he got mad and couldnt understand how that is putting your kids in danger or moving a strange f**king guy in after 2 months of f**king him and he punishes the kids on her instruction. I wish I knew how to contact their real father

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
3rd Aug '13
Quoting vajayna:" Here in KY they put them down for minimum wage. He will be ordered to pay, and when he gets a job, go back and report it."


if he does get one it wont be with his cna. It will be the lowest paying shortest hours he can find i promise you that. he is a lazy pos