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If your BD..... P3RvYmCp3rv 2 kids; Carlyle, Illinois 11904 posts
3rd Aug '13

was moving 6-8 hrs away which means he would no longer see the kids every other weekend or his 24 hrs a month would you expect him to at least say he was leaving?

A & T + 2♡ 2 kids; Kansas 19173 posts
3rd Aug '13

Ummm, ya?!

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36510 posts
status 3rd Aug '13

Yeah.



But I know he wouldnt tell the kid...

*Mary Moon* 1 child; New York 3601 posts
3rd Aug '13

Was there a consistent relationship with him and the kids? If so, then that should definitely be expected I'd say.

P3RvYmCp3rv 2 kids; Carlyle, Illinois 11904 posts
3rd Aug '13
Quoting *Mary Moon*:" Was there a consistent relationship with him and the kids? If so, then that should definitely be expected I'd say."


Ummm he gets them every other weekend and is my babysitter the weekends that he has them so I can work so he is really f**king me. He has had them every other weekend for the past year.

A & T + 2♡ 2 kids; Kansas 19173 posts
3rd Aug '13
Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:" Ummm he gets them every other weekend and is my babysitter the weekends that he has them so I can work so he is really f**king me. He has had them every other weekend for the past year."


He just told you after he moved?! Wth, I'd be pissed.

P3RvYmCp3rv 2 kids; Carlyle, Illinois 11904 posts
3rd Aug '13
Quoting MJ's Mommy♥:" He just told you after he moved?! Wth, I'd be pissed."

Nope he isn't telling me period. I even brought up that I have to work 9-4:30 tomorrow so I won't be here or picking up the kids when he has them my mom will and he was like oh okay.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36510 posts
status 3rd Aug '13
Quoting MJ's Mommy♥:" He just told you after he moved?! Wth, I'd be pissed."


No he hasnt moved yet. His stepmom told OP... He hasnt told her yet. OR THE KIDS.

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
3rd Aug '13

Per our court order, he would legally have to. So in my situation, yes.

P3RvYmCp3rv 2 kids; Carlyle, Illinois 11904 posts
3rd Aug '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" Per our court order, he would legally have to. So in my situation, yes."

Yea we have a court order saying he gets them every other weekend 10-4 Sat and Sunday........and it is pretty vague otherwise. But I have full custody which I talked to a lawyer about and he can't legally take them over state lines even to take them to the zoo etc etc. Soooo since he is moving out of state I'm assuming he is forfeiting his visitation.

misanthrope 2 kids; Ramona, California 15431 posts
3rd Aug '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" Per our court order, he would legally have to. So in my situation, yes."</blockquote>




Same.

A & T + 2♡ 2 kids; Kansas 19173 posts
3rd Aug '13
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" No he hasnt moved yet. His stepmom told OP... He hasnt told her yet. OR THE KIDS. "


:shock: Oh my gosh.

Good Queen Bess 2 kids; Ontario 45941 posts
3rd Aug '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" Per our court order, he would legally have to. So in my situation, yes."


Mine does as well.



It says that if we want to more more than 2 hour away from each other, we need to give 60 days notice so the other party has the right to go to court about it.

A & T + 2♡ 2 kids; Kansas 19173 posts
3rd Aug '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" Per our court order, he would legally have to. So in my situation, yes."


Same for me.

P3RvYmCp3rv 2 kids; Carlyle, Illinois 11904 posts
3rd Aug '13
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Mine does as well. It says that if we want to more more than 2 hour away from each other, we need to give 60 days notice so the other party has the right to go to court about it."


Yea ours I don't think says that or anything to that extent at all. Our judge really f**king sucked. He ordered me to take them back and forth because ya know the one busting their ass to pay for everything should have to spend even more money on driving them everywhere/missing work and so on. And he is only ordered to pay 37.80 every 2 weeks. Which doesn't happen anyways.