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Sex worries. His♡Cupcake 1 child; Quebec 4468 posts
5th Aug '13

I don't know how to start this so Im just going to go ahead.
Me and SO have been together for about 6 months, and at first we would have sex atleast 3 times whenever we would see eachother, now 6 months later its less, not a huge difference but still a difference and im worried it will get lesser and lesser as we go on.
I am so worried about this happening, with my BD we had once gone 3 months with no sex. I just want to keep our sex drives to max as long as possible.

.Jezebel. 1 child; Sumter, South Carolina 9406 posts
5th Aug '13

Talk to him about it. He may be stressed out or something. It's normal for your sex life to take dips like that every now and then.

♥Manda♥ Swan Valley, WA, Australia 29454 posts
5th Aug '13

that seems simple to fix... initiate sex more often when your with him. Unless hes flat out refusing then i wouldnt worry personally.



Its normal for it to drop to less often after a little while though, the new relationship and new sexual partner excitement is gone.

CurlyDimpledLunatic! Due December 11 (girl); 2 kids; North Dakota 13768 posts
5th Aug '13
Quoting ɐɹɐs:" Talk to him about it. He may be stressed out or something. It's normal for your sex life to take dips like that every now and then."


First of all, I LOVE your avi. I am OBSESSED with SOA and Charlie Hunnam.




and I agree with what she said, OP. once you settle in, I guess for lack of a better term, the sex kind of regulates. DH and I have been together almost 8 years and we go times where it's less and other times where we have sex more often.

His♡Cupcake 1 child; Quebec 4468 posts
5th Aug '13

I know my worries are silly.
I speak to SO about it and he knows that I am worried about it completely dying down, and I think its putting additonal stress on him..

Rebekah Garden x3 Due October 5 (boy); 33 kids; Fall River, Massachusetts 5223 posts
5th Aug '13

It is gonna get less and less. As you get "comfortable" so to speak life will regulate. DH and I had sex 2-3 times a day when we started and it slowly got less and less, when we moved in it got less. And now as we have been together 4 years and married 2 we have sex 2-3 times a week. A lot less than I would like, but it's normal.

.Jezebel. 1 child; Sumter, South Carolina 9406 posts
5th Aug '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting CurlyDimpledLunatic!:</b>" First of all, I LOVE your avi. I am OBSESSED with SOA and Charlie Hunnam. and I agree with what she ... [snip!] ... DH and I have been together almost 8 years and we go times where it's less and other times where we have sex more often. "</blockquote>



:D Girl, me too. He's scrumptious! I can't wait for the new season.

CurlyDimpledLunatic! Due December 11 (girl); 2 kids; North Dakota 13768 posts
5th Aug '13
Quoting ɐɹɐs:" <blockquote><b>Quoting CurlyDimpledLunatic!:</b>" First of all, I LOVE your avi. I ... [snip!] ... times where we have sex more often. "</blockquote> :D Girl, me too. He's scrumptious! I can't wait for the new season."


Oh man, I am so excited. I literally get butterflies when I see him on the screen because he is so... DAYUM. fine.
This video made me cry... but at the time.. ugh, he is just SO HOT. and I love OPIE too.. was devastated when he died.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dY4rOu9vM0I&list=PL0sXjQ4ch4qvCKA5NQg_rLtS9Xkwcs8ea&index=12
if you start at 1:44 and go from there... Idk why it's so sad..




oh God, OP. I'm sorry. I'm so rude. :oops:

.Jezebel. 1 child; Sumter, South Carolina 9406 posts
5th Aug '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting CurlyDimpledLunatic!:</b>" Oh man, I am so excited. I literally get butterflies when I see him on the screen because he is so... ... [snip!] ... if you start at 1:44 and go from there... Idk why it's so sad.. oh God, OP. I'm sorry. I'm so rude. :oops:"</blockquote>



This stupid iPad won't let me watch it. :(

His♡Cupcake 1 child; Quebec 4468 posts
5th Aug '13
Quoting CurlyDimpledLunatic!:" Oh man, I am so excited. I literally get butterflies when I see him on the screen because he is so... ... [snip!] ... if you start at 1:44 and go from there... Idk why it's so sad.. oh God, OP. I'm sorry. I'm so rude. :oops:"


Don't worry! I LOVE SOA and opie was by far my favorite :( Cried when he died!

CurlyDimpledLunatic! Due December 11 (girl); 2 kids; North Dakota 13768 posts
5th Aug '13
Quoting Callie Lover♡:" Don't worry! I LOVE SOA and opie was by far my favorite :( Cried when he died!"


It wasn't the same after he died. Still good... but not the same.



I was a little mad at him when he cheated on Lyla.....

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49279 posts
5th Aug '13

It's normal for it to taper off after a while. Kind of like when you get this super awesome cake and you love it and can't get enough so you eat a bunch, then the next day a little less. Then by the end of the cake it's kinda like "eh, yeah, it's good and I really like it, but maybe later."

His♡Cupcake 1 child; Quebec 4468 posts
5th Aug '13
Quoting CurlyDimpledLunatic!:" It wasn't the same after he died. Still good... but not the same. I was a little mad at him when he cheated on Lyla..... "


I was too! But you said something about it coming back? I thought it was done?
It would make my freaking day!

His♡Cupcake 1 child; Quebec 4468 posts
5th Aug '13
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" It's normal for it to taper off after a while. Kind of like when you get this super awesome cake and ... [snip!] ... day a little less. Then by the end of the cake it's kinda like "eh, yeah, it's good and I really like it, but maybe later.""


I know :( its just how it goes, but I am terrified that eventually we will get to the point of not having sex for days.. and with past relationships, this is how it got and slowly we just lost eachother and with SO this is NOT an option.



CurlyDimpledLunatic! Due December 11 (girl); 2 kids; North Dakota 13768 posts
5th Aug '13
Quoting Callie Lover♡:" I was too! But you said something about it coming back? I thought it was done? It would make my freaking day!"


yes! Season 6! September 10th!