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Crystallight 2 kids; 1065 posts
Aug 5th '13
Quoting tonys_mama(army wife):" <blockquote><b>Quoting CrystalLight:</b>" i think she needs to get of our lives ... [snip!] ... Ummm no they have a child together. She will always be in his life. How did she go behind her husbands back?"



she took a private convo they had and told my husband her husband planned on tell him

Hy'ska 2 kids; Your mom, WA, United States 50865 posts
Aug 5th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting CrystalLight:</b>" so its ok for her to go behind her husbands back and to bring shit up about there past"</blockquote>




She was venting, like what you're doing on here

Crystallight 2 kids; 1065 posts
Aug 5th '13
Quoting ♥TwinsRock26♥:" I think you are way over reacting. She doesn't need to "get out of your lives". She will always be there. She has a child with your husband. "



she will get out of my husbands life

Crystallight 2 kids; 1065 posts
Aug 5th '13
Quoting Hy'ska:" <blockquote><b>Quoting CrystalLight:</b>" so its ok for her to go behind her husbands ... [snip!] ... her husbands back and to bring shit up about there past"</blockquote> She was venting, like what you're doing on here"


she doesnt need to vent to my husband thats not ok

____ 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Texas 5840 posts
Aug 5th '13

You sound completely immature. She's sending a picture of your STEPCHILD, and you are going crazy.
You need a grow up and realize that she's the ex for a reason. If he wanted her, he'd be with her. Quit acting like a spoiled brat because he communicates with his baby's mom. Like a responsible adult.

Hy'ska 2 kids; Your mom, WA, United States 50865 posts
Aug 5th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting CrystalLight:</b>" she will get out of my husbands life"</blockquote>



Lmao you sound like a jealous teenager

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15566 posts
Aug 5th '13
Quoting CrystalLight:" so its ok for her to go behind her husbands back and to bring shit up about there past"

She didn't "go behind her Husbands back"



Unless she snuck out the house at 3am, ran to a payphone and called your Husband from there, I don't think it was behind his back. It's not like a national secret or anything.

Hy'ska 2 kids; Your mom, WA, United States 50865 posts
Aug 5th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting CrystalLight:</b>" she doesnt need to vent to my husband thats not ok"</blockquote>




Oh don't be sad you're getting sloppy seconds. She's always going to be in his life.
Chill out.

Mrs.C+4.5 5 kids; 1 angel baby; Duncan, OK, United States 17605 posts
status Aug 5th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting CrystalLight:</b>" she took a private convo they had and told my husband her husband planned on tell him"</blockquote>




A convo about moving HIS child. That is something that you do when you have a kid together! Legally she has to tell him that she is moving. Would you rather her just take off with the kid without telling him?

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15566 posts
Aug 5th '13
Quoting CrystalLight:" she will get out of my husbands life"

Quite honestly, if this is how you act, YOU should think about getting out of your Husband's life. You can't control who he was with before you. You can't shut his Daughter out of his life, which is what this type of behavior will lead to.

Squid Kid Unavailable, NA, United States 32450 posts
Aug 5th '13

He has to be informed of what kind of situation his daughter is going to be in. Until she is 18, she is going to be a prominent part of life and I hope you don't push her out, because that will make your step-daughter hate you.

iLL-Legal Unicorn Alien 3 kids; New York, TX, United States 37137 posts
Aug 5th '13

You obviously have your mind made up in all of this.



But no matter what you think of her, you can't change the fact that she has a bond with your husband. A bond you can't just *poof* and make it disappear, and that bond is called a child.



So, yeah...she's going to be part of your husband's life.

♥TwinsRock♥ 2 kids; Buffalo, New York 4471 posts
Aug 5th '13
Quoting CrystalLight:" she will get out of my husbands life"


What?! You WANT the mother of his child to peace out? What's wrong with you? Grow up.

MonkeyMel 1 child; Moore, Oklahoma 26207 posts
Aug 5th '13
Quoting Crystal
Laceyxo Due December 1; 1 child; Pennsylvania 712 posts
Aug 5th '13
Quoting CrystalLight:" she doesnt need to vent to my husband thats not ok"


I don't think youre mature enough to handle the situation you got yourself into. Just because YOU are married to him now and YOU also have a child with him doesn't mean "you won", and now you own him or something. It seems like you want him all to yourself and your child together and screw his other child. grow up a little, your kids will realize whats going on if you keep this up when theyre older!