My husband said this to me last night. That he would be okay if I did have someone on the side just where I'm happy and he wouldn't have to leave the girls. I'm not cheating on him. He don't believe me he accuses me almost everyday. Just because I am now getting off a little later because we have been slammed every time I close. It's not my fault that I am getting off later now cause we have lost a shift leader for the back. Everyone tells me the guilty dog barks first. I don't know if that's true in my case. But it's getting very annoying that I get accused almost everyday of cheating. If I'm not at home I'm at work if I'm not at work I'm with the girls or with my mom with the girls. I don't go anywhere without my girls basically if I don't have both I have at least one of them. So why would you tell me this..
Sorry venting. Please don't quote.
Repeated accusations of cheating is a red flag for emotional abuse.
What do you mean by emotional abuse?
it isn't always guilt causing crazy accusations..... depression, anxiety, mood disorders can all cause irrational behaviors & thoughts. Is there any history of mental illness or major disfunction in his family?
Quoting mother of 2 beauitful gir:" What do you mean by emotional abuse?"
Abusing you mentally. It's just as bad or worse than physical abuse. The link I posted has some good information on it.
One of his family members have been skitafrena (sp).
Girl dont worry about it, my SO accuses me a lot and I get paid to go to school once a week... I definitely understand how annoying it is tho, we have never given them a reason to suspect anything yet they're convinced for some reason. I think it's just their own insecurities