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I don't understand why... mother of 2 beauitful gir 2 kids; Tennessee 213 posts
5th Aug

My husband said this to me last night. That he would be okay if I did have someone on the side just where I'm happy and he wouldn't have to leave the girls. I'm not cheating on him. He don't believe me he accuses me almost everyday. Just because I am now getting off a little later because we have been slammed every time I close. It's not my fault that I am getting off later now cause we have lost a shift leader for the back. Everyone tells me the guilty dog barks first. I don't know if that's true in my case. But it's getting very annoying that I get accused almost everyday of cheating. If I'm not at home I'm at work if I'm not at work I'm with the girls or with my mom with the girls. I don't go anywhere without my girls basically if I don't have both I have at least one of them. So why would you tell me this..



Sorry venting. Please don't quote.

Amelia [26 wks Boy!] Due July 20; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 14362 posts
status 5th Aug

Repeated accusations of cheating is a red flag for emotional abuse.



http://www.ccs.ohio-state.edu/self-help/relationship-abuse/

mother of 2 beauitful gir 2 kids; Tennessee 213 posts
5th Aug

What do you mean by emotional abuse?

7 blessings so far.... Due February 3; 6 kids; Glen Burnie, Maryland 8799 posts
5th Aug

it isn't always guilt causing crazy accusations..... depression, anxiety, mood disorders can all cause irrational behaviors & thoughts. Is there any history of mental illness or major disfunction in his family?

Amelia [26 wks Boy!] Due July 20; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 14362 posts
status 5th Aug
Quoting mother of 2 beauitful gir:" What do you mean by emotional abuse?"


Abusing you mentally. It's just as bad or worse than physical abuse. The link I posted has some good information on it.

mother of 2 beauitful gir 2 kids; Tennessee 213 posts
5th Aug

One of his family members have been skitafrena (sp).

1stTimeBabyMaker 1 child; California 2611 posts
5th Aug

Girl dont worry about it, my SO accuses me a lot and I get paid to go to school once a week... I definitely understand how annoying it is tho, we have never given them a reason to suspect anything yet they're convinced for some reason. I think it's just their own insecurities

mother of 2 beauitful gir 2 kids; Tennessee 213 posts
5th Aug

Well it's very annoying. I can't take it to much longer. It's been 5 years of this shit. Same thing just different days.