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Bd drama baby jj! 1 child; Michigan 42 posts
9th Aug

So I have a 2 year old son and I'm not with his dad me and my bf have been together for a year and were moving in together in 2 weeks but my bd doesn't want my son living with us he said he's gonna take my son away an if I do move in with my bf Tht he was gonna kill us supposedly. I'm putting him on child support and setting up visitation scheduling. Would they give him custody of my son cus he has a job a car and his own place. Not to mention he's 22 and got his 15 year old Gf pregnant. I have a job but not a car and will be getting my own place with my bf

Mrs.Mud 6 kids; 2 angel babies; North Dakota 3231 posts
9th Aug

Wish him good luck and then go file a police report for the threat against your life.

Cat Abbott 2 kids; British Columbia 1389 posts
9th Aug
Quoting Mrs.Mud:" Wish him good luck and then go file a police report for the threat against your life."

Uh yeah that.
Also record any future conversations with him if possible so you have proof.
It's highly unlikely they would give him custody over you. The system tends to favor mothers, for better or worse. Living with a boyfriend is irrelevant, unless he's got a record.

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15205 posts
9th Aug

I assume you called the police when he threatened to kill you, and then filed for emergency custody.

♥ Mrs. S ♥ Due September 20; 2 kids; Venezuela 12963 posts
status 9th Aug
Quoting Mrs.Mud:" Wish him good luck and then go file a police report for the threat against your life."


This....

SurvivingApril 18 kids; West Virginia 174 posts
10th Aug
Quoting Red Bottom:" I assume you called the police when he threatened to kill you, and then filed for emergency custody."



do this. first off. File for emergency custody, restraining order.



and then keep everything from written word, email or text from now on if that is how he is going to act.
he won't get your child unless you are found to be an unfit mother by investigation and only you know the outcome of that would be. he is just threatening you to scare you and make you worry, do not listen to him.