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Shitty night/day user banned
9th Aug '13

Last night I was feeling really, really weird so I went to the ER. My husband did NOT want me to go, told me I was fine, it was in my head, etc. No. I was dehydrated, my BP was dangerously, stroke level high and my blood sugar was high too. I was diagnosed with hypertension (high bp) and Type 2 Diabetes. I KNOW it's my own fault, that I should have been healthier and this wouldn't have happened and I feel like shit. I'm so f**king ashamed. On top of that, my husband is f**king furious with me. Like, so f**king pissed. He didn't want me to go to the ER at all and now that I actually have been diagnosed with something, he's even angrier. I know it's my fault but I just want some f**king support. :( :cry:

ℕightingale 1 child; Mississippi 7407 posts
9th Aug '13

Why is he mad? I don't understand it. And how is any of this your fault?

user banned California 36390 posts
9th Aug '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Glo♥:</b>" Why is he mad? I don't understand it. And how is any of this your fault?"</blockquote>




Because if I had taken care of myself this wouldn't have happened.

ℕightingale 1 child; Mississippi 7407 posts
9th Aug '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lizzie McGuire:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Glo♥:</b>" Why is he mad? I don't understand it. And how ... [snip!] ... And how is any of this your fault?"</blockquote> Because if I had taken care of myself this wouldn't have happened."</blockquote>




But you don't really know that you can healthy and all that stuff and end up getting diabetes or something else.

Krystle ♥ 2 kids; New York 3923 posts
9th Aug '13

Sorry but your husband sounds like a dick.

user banned California 36390 posts
9th Aug '13
Quoting Krystle ♥:" Sorry but your husband sounds like a dick."


He IS a dick but I'm still upset.

Krystle ♥ 2 kids; New York 3923 posts
9th Aug '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lizzie McGuire:</b>" He IS a dick but I'm still upset. "</blockquote>



I mean I wouldn't be putting all the fault on yourself. Something's you can't control.
There's no need for him to be mad at you at all.



Keep your head up mama !

user banned California 36390 posts
9th Aug '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Krystle ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lizzie McGuire:</b>" He IS a dick but I'm still upset. "</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... fault on yourself. Something's you can't control. There's no need for him to be mad at you at all. Keep your head up mama !"</blockquote>




I wouldn't even be that upset that he's mad except that I need medicine and he won't take me to get it

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
9th Aug '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lizzie McGuire:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Krystle ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lizzie ... [snip!] ... I wouldn't even be that upset that he's mad except that I need medicine and he won't take me to get it"</blockquote>




And you're with this man why? He obviously doesn't if you live or die, sounds like an abusive a*****e.



Please find someone to get you to the pharmacy. Walk there. Something. Don't let him be the reason you have a stroke or go into diabetic shock.

user banned California 36390 posts
9th Aug '13
Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lizzie McGuire:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Krystle ... [snip!] ... to get you to the pharmacy. Walk there. Something. Don't let him be the reason you have a stroke or go into diabetic shock."


My Gram is coming to get me.



PS, I saw those pics of Kenz at the fair and we must have JUST missed you guys because we were there too
!

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
9th Aug '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lizzie McGuire:</b>" My Gram is coming to get me. PS, I saw those pics of Kenz at the fair and we must have JUST missed you guys because we were there too !"</blockquote>




What?! Yesterday? Wah.




We were gonna stay, but SO has to call for work everyday and his was dying, so if they called him back to work and his phone died he'd be out a day of work :/

user banned California 36390 posts
9th Aug '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lizzie McGuire:</b>" My Gram is coming to get me. PS, I saw ... [snip!] ... to call for work everyday and his was dying, so if they called him back to work and his phone died he'd be out a day of work :/"</blockquote>




Yeah we were there from 1230 to 5ish with another one of my friends from on here. It could've been a mega bg meetup

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
9th Aug '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lizzie McGuire:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... Yeah we were there from 1230 to 5ish with another one of my friends from on here. It could've been a mega bg meetup"</blockquote>



We were there from 2-3:30! Didn't even see you :(