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Shitty night/day user banned
9th Aug '13

Last night I was feeling really, really weird so I went to the ER. My husband did NOT want me to go, told me I was fine, it was in my head, etc. No. I was dehydrated, my BP was dangerously, stroke level high and my blood sugar was high too. I was diagnosed with hypertension (high bp) and Type 2 Diabetes. I KNOW it's my own fault, that I should have been healthier and this wouldn't have happened and I feel like shit. I'm so fucking ashamed. On top of that, my husband is fucking furious with me. Like, so fucking pissed. He didn't want me to go to the ER at all and now that I actually have been diagnosed with something, he's even angrier. I know it's my fault but I just want some fucking support. :( :cry:

ℕightingale 1 child; Mississippi 8010 posts
9th Aug '13

Why is he mad? I don't understand it. And how is any of this your fault?

user banned California 36390 posts
9th Aug '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Glo♥:</b>" Why is he mad? I don't understand it. And how is any of this your fault?"</blockquote>




Because if I had taken care of myself this wouldn't have happened.

ℕightingale 1 child; Mississippi 8010 posts
9th Aug '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lizzie McGuire:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Glo♥:</b>" Why is he mad? I don't understand it. And how ... [snip!] ... And how is any of this your fault?"</blockquote> Because if I had taken care of myself this wouldn't have happened."</blockquote>




But you don't really know that you can healthy and all that stuff and end up getting diabetes or something else.

Krystle ♥ 2 kids; New York 3923 posts
9th Aug '13

Sorry but your husband sounds like a dick.

user banned California 36390 posts
9th Aug '13
Quoting Krystle ♥:" Sorry but your husband sounds like a dick."


He IS a dick but I'm still upset.

Krystle ♥ 2 kids; New York 3923 posts
9th Aug '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lizzie McGuire:</b>" He IS a dick but I'm still upset. "</blockquote>



I mean I wouldn't be putting all the fault on yourself. Something's you can't control.
There's no need for him to be mad at you at all.



Keep your head up mama !

user banned California 36390 posts
9th Aug '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Krystle ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lizzie McGuire:</b>" He IS a dick but I'm still upset. "</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... fault on yourself. Something's you can't control. There's no need for him to be mad at you at all. Keep your head up mama !"</blockquote>




I wouldn't even be that upset that he's mad except that I need medicine and he won't take me to get it

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
9th Aug '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lizzie McGuire:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Krystle ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lizzie ... [snip!] ... I wouldn't even be that upset that he's mad except that I need medicine and he won't take me to get it"</blockquote>




And you're with this man why? He obviously doesn't if you live or die, sounds like an abusive asshole.



Please find someone to get you to the pharmacy. Walk there. Something. Don't let him be the reason you have a stroke or go into diabetic shock.

user banned California 36390 posts
9th Aug '13
Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lizzie McGuire:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Krystle ... [snip!] ... to get you to the pharmacy. Walk there. Something. Don't let him be the reason you have a stroke or go into diabetic shock."


My Gram is coming to get me.



PS, I saw those pics of Kenz at the fair and we must have JUST missed you guys because we were there too
!

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
9th Aug '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lizzie McGuire:</b>" My Gram is coming to get me. PS, I saw those pics of Kenz at the fair and we must have JUST missed you guys because we were there too !"</blockquote>




What?! Yesterday? Wah.




We were gonna stay, but SO has to call for work everyday and his was dying, so if they called him back to work and his phone died he'd be out a day of work :/

user banned California 36390 posts
9th Aug '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lizzie McGuire:</b>" My Gram is coming to get me. PS, I saw ... [snip!] ... to call for work everyday and his was dying, so if they called him back to work and his phone died he'd be out a day of work :/"</blockquote>




Yeah we were there from 1230 to 5ish with another one of my friends from on here. It could've been a mega bg meetup

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
9th Aug '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lizzie McGuire:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... Yeah we were there from 1230 to 5ish with another one of my friends from on here. It could've been a mega bg meetup"</blockquote>



We were there from 2-3:30! Didn't even see you :(