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I cant stop obsessing Secret Service Texas 750 posts
14th Aug '13

Over the girl my SO cheated on me with, I think of how she look and wonder if he thinks she prettier. I wonder if he thinks shes better sexually. I wonder if he thinks of her more than me. I feel ugly compared to her and like Im not good enough for him.

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14113 posts
14th Aug '13

I doubt it. They always downgrade.

Sherri + 3 LLC 3 kids; Mesa, Arizona 3758 posts
14th Aug '13

I'm sorry :(



That has to be a completely horrible thing to go through. I don't really have any advice. The 2 guys I have been with previously that cheated on me, I broke up with right away. I could never stay with someone who cheated on me. I would constantly be worrying about them doing it again. I would also be obsessing like you are right now.

Secret Service Texas 750 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting Supafly★:" I doubt it. They always downgrade. "



Ive seen pics of her

Secret Service Texas 750 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting Sherri + 3:" I'm sorry :( That has to be a completely horrible thing to go through. I don't really have any advice. ... [snip!] ... who cheated on me. I would constantly be worrying about them doing it again. I would also be obsessing like you are right now. "


I should of left him but, I didnt.

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14113 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting Secret Service:" Ive seen pics of her"



Was it more than once? He probably just made a stupid decision.

Secret Service Texas 750 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting Supafly★:" Was it more than once? He probably just made a stupid decision. "


just once but it was on my birthday. So I spent it alone while he blew me off.

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14113 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting Secret Service:" just once but it was on my birthday. So I spent it alone while he blew me off."


Wooow that's cold. :? I mean, I guess you've forgiven him since you're still with him but if it eats you up that badly it's not worth it IMO.

Secret Service Texas 750 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting Supafly★:" Wooow that's cold. :? I mean, I guess you've forgiven him since you're still with him but if it eats you up that badly it's not worth it IMO. "


I dont even know what to say to him

Sherri + 3 LLC 3 kids; Mesa, Arizona 3758 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting Secret Service:" just once but it was on my birthday. So I spent it alone while he blew me off."


Wow. You are a better person then I am because I wouldn't have been able to forgive that at all. I really think you need to have a talk with him. If you really cannot get over what happened and all you are going to do is make yourself miserable by comparing yourself to her, then you need to break the relationship off. You deserve better and you deserve to be happy.

Secret Service Texas 750 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting Sherri + 3:" Wow. You are a better person then I am because I wouldn't have been able to forgive that at all. I really ... [snip!] ... by comparing yourself to her, then you need to break the relationship off. You deserve better and you deserve to be happy. "


Its hard because Im beyond attached to him/

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14113 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting Secret Service:" I dont even know what to say to him"


Did he tell you or you found out somehow?

What if... 2 kids; Ontario 4587 posts
14th Aug '13

that is rough :( I've been through it and ultimately I had to leave him, it just causes problems, jealouslyy, and always comes out in arguments. If you can get over it and make it work, kudos to you. you'll have to talk to him about how you're feeling though

Secret Service Texas 750 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting Supafly★:" Did he tell you or you found out somehow?"


one of his friends told me

Secret Service Texas 750 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting What if...:" that is rough :( I've been through it and ultimately I had to leave him, it just causes problems, jealouslyy, ... [snip!] ... in arguments. If you can get over it and make it work, kudos to you. you'll have to talk to him about how you're feeling though"


I dont think he'll leave me for her or anything but I just feel so ugly now