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Holly&Hudson's Mommy 2 kids; Dallas, Texas 1346 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting House. {TKO!}:" Now THAT is suspicious. Dump him. WTF reason does he have for not adding his GF on FB? That's like, ... [snip!] ... enough to find out why. If that's an issue for him right off the bat, he's already been lying to you your whole relationship."


yeah and we've been together for over a year and a half.

loser mom 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Oslo, ,, Norway 10902 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting Crystal
Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15566 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting House. {TKO!}:" Now THAT is suspicious. Dump him. WTF reason does he have for not adding his GF on FB? That's like, ... [snip!] ... enough to find out why. If that's an issue for him right off the bat, he's already been lying to you your whole relationship."

Haha that was the FB point I was making. It's not official til it's on FB. It seems so dumb to me, but I do realize a lot of other people don't agree.

laurenmik 3 kids; Aurora, Colorado 7222 posts
14th Aug '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting loser mom (tko!):</b>" I agree for the most part, but "refusing" to add your boyfriend/girlfriend is odd. I mean, if you value your privacy to that extent, you wouldn't have a FB at all. "</blockquote>




I agree with this.



I guess I don't see Facebook as a "private" place.

Vitameatavegamin 19 kids; League City, Texas 5829 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting Crystal
Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15566 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting loser mom (tko!):" I agree for the most part, but "refusing" to add your boyfriend/girlfriend is odd. I mean, if you value your privacy to that extent, you wouldn't have a FB at all. "

Yeah I agree, I was more or less talking about his phone on the last part. I kind of refused to add SO to FB for a really long time. We were living together already pregnant before it happened. I haven't updated to Engaged either and it's been a few years since that. But not adding at ALL? Yeah, that's a little weird. I assumed when she said something about FB it was the relationship thing, not just in general.

Holly&Hudson's Mommy 2 kids; Dallas, Texas 1346 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting laurenmik:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Holly's{+1}Mommy:</b>" it was really just the fact that he ... [snip!] ... seem to just be adding up."</blockquote> He won't add you on Facebook? Stupid as it sounds that wouldn't fly with me."


not only will he not add me, i'm blocked

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36539 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting House. {TKO!}:" Now THAT is suspicious. Dump him. WTF reason does he have for not adding his GF on FB? That's like, ... [snip!] ... enough to find out why. If that's an issue for him right off the bat, he's already been lying to you your whole relationship."

This!



And Im assuming you have been with him since AT LEAST end of feb - beginning of march... f**k that, Id be gone a long time ago.. if they dont want to be "fb offical" f**k them. & I know that its stupid but... it really sends red flags.

Holly&Hudson's Mommy 2 kids; Dallas, Texas 1346 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting Crystal
loser mom 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Oslo, ,, Norway 10902 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting Crystal
loser mom 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Oslo, ,, Norway 10902 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting Holly's{+1}Mommy:" not only will he not add me, i'm blocked"



:shock::shock::shock:

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36539 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting Holly's{+1}Mommy:" not only will he not add me, i'm blocked"


Id be chucking the deuces up! My ex played that game with me... f**k that... Have more respect for yourself.

Vitameatavegamin 19 kids; League City, Texas 5829 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting Crystal
Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15566 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting Holly's{+1}Mommy:" trust me i've tried...i ALWAYS make a problem according to him..."

See... porn doesn't really bother me and neither does keeping a phone private, but blocking you and refusing to even add you on FB, along with trying to blame you for everything is ridiculous.

Mommy-of-3-awesome-kids 3 kids; Go Hawks, IA, United States 2562 posts
14th Aug '13

That is weird. My DH accidentally leaves his Facebook up all the time, we tell each other everything. That would be strange to me.