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Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36631 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting House. {TKO!}:" That really is the kind of world we're living in today though. DH doesn't have a FB, but if he ... [snip!] ... then made a PTOT but refused to PT you so you couldn't see what he was saying to his friends. It's basically the same thing."


I agree... I know its not a big deal but it kinda is... ya know?

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15566 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting House. {TKO!}:" That really is the kind of world we're living in today though. DH doesn't have a FB, but if he ... [snip!] ... then made a PTOT but refused to PT you so you couldn't see what he was saying to his friends. It's basically the same thing."

Oh no, I think I'm caught up now. I had a derp moment, where everyone figured it out but me. I was assuming it was the FB relationship status thing, but he was refusing to add her at all. Even went so far as to block her. That is not okay at all.

Vitameatavegamin 19 kids; League City, Texas 5829 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" This! And Im assuming you have been with him since AT LEAST end of feb - beginning of march... Fuck ... [snip!] ... long time ago.. if they dont want to be "fb offical" fuck them. & I know that its stupid but... it really sends red flags. "


:!:
And for him to have you blocked OP... Wow... to go out of his way to block his GF, please... I think it's almost obvious you're being played. :( Sorry but I have to tell the truth, there is nothing normal about him blocking you. And it's likely because he's talking to a girl(s) on there and doesn't want you to see. I mean... that's the ONLY logical thing I can conclude from that.

If it was ME, I as soon as he gets home I would demand him to unblock me right then and there, and if he refused, I would tell him I now need the FB password or I'm leaving. I'm just saying that's what I would do. Too many red flags, fuck that, I won't be played like a fiddle. I think you're in denial, truthfully.


Hopefully this isn't the case.... but I would have to get to the bottom of why I'm blocked for no apparent reason, let alone not added to his friends list.

. , Richmond, VA, United States 75043 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting loser mom (tko!):" I agree for the most part, but "refusing" to add your boyfriend/girlfriend is odd. I mean, if you value your privacy to that extent, you wouldn't have a FB at all. "

Seriously :lol: "I need my privacy...on a public social network".

. , Richmond, VA, United States 75043 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting Holly's{+1}Mommy:" trust me i've tried...i ALWAYS make a problem according to him..."

He says that to take the focus off of his sketchiness.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36631 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting House. {TKO!}:" :!: And for him to have you blocked OP... Wow... to go out of his way to block his GF, please... ... [snip!] ... but I would have to get to the bottom of why I'm blocked for no apparent reason, let alone not added to his friends list."


THIS totally... When my ex and I got back together after my youngest was born, He knew how much of a problem it was [adding me on FB] for me before... So I told him after two weeks of being "together" again, that if he didnt add me and UNBLOCK me, I would forget his ass... Guess what... He refused to and played stupid with me. And I said fuck you, I have no ties with you.

Vitameatavegamin 19 kids; League City, Texas 5829 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting Crystal
Holly&Hudson's Mommy 2 kids; Dallas, Texas 1346 posts
14th Aug '13

i want to trust my gut so bad...i just feel uneasy about our relationship, but what if i'm just over reacting about everything? is that possible?

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36631 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting Holly's{+1}Mommy:" i want to trust my gut so bad...i just feel uneasy about our relationship, but what if i'm just over reacting about everything? is that possible?"


You are NOT over reacting. GO WITH YOUR GUT!!!!

. , Richmond, VA, United States 75043 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting Holly's{+1}Mommy:" i want to trust my gut so bad...i just feel uneasy about our relationship, but what if i'm just over reacting about everything? is that possible?"

Honestly, I think you feel that way because that's basically what he tells you, from what you've said here. I wouldn't be okay with my SO lying to me, I wouldn't be okay with him blocking me on fb, what reason could there be to do that? If he's not hiding anything why would he block you and not add you? I don't think you're overreacting by not being okay with those things.

Vitameatavegamin 19 kids; League City, Texas 5829 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting Holly's{+1}Mommy:" i want to trust my gut so bad...i just feel uneasy about our relationship, but what if i'm just over reacting about everything? is that possible?"


I don't think so. The porn was overacting. Being blocked on FB is not overacting, that is a valid concern that you should address. I mean, that is just a big giant red flag with flashing lights right in front of you. You should get to the bottom of it or leave him if you'd rather not know... because something is just not right with that, for sure.

Holly&Hudson's Mommy 2 kids; Dallas, Texas 1346 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting House. {TKO!}:" I don't think so. The porn was overacting. Being blocked on FB is not overacting, that is a valid concern ... [snip!] ... get to the bottom of it or leave him if you'd rather not know... because something is just not right with that, for sure."


I've tried talking to him about why i'm blocked. He tell me " its just facebook and to get over it"

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36631 posts
14th Aug '13
Quoting Holly's{+1}Mommy:" I've tried talking to him about why i'm blocked. He tell me " its just facebook and to get over it""


Nope.. Loose him sweetie..

Mama Mallo (: 2 kids; Texas 6514 posts
14th Aug '13

Elizabeth, you need to lose him. He is such an asshole! It's fkn classic douchebag to try and flip the focus on you to make it seem like YOU'RE in the wrong. You are better than him. You need more respect for yourself. Given how I met him, & you know about it.. He's probably played you from the beginning. You need to leave him
& focus on yourself & your kids.

Holly&Hudson's Mommy 2 kids; Dallas, Texas 1346 posts
16th Aug '13
Quoting Mama Mallo (::" Elizabeth, you need to lose him. He is such an asshole! It's fkn classic douchebag to try and flip the ... [snip!] ... him, & you know about it.. He's probably played you from the beginning. You need to leave him & focus on yourself & your kids."


Mallorie, yeah i know...it's really coming down to it. You've met him? like in person? I knew that ya'll talked...Will you message me your number again?? I had to factory reset my phone and lost everything.