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Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14304 posts
16th Aug '13
Quoting ☮Hippie Jesus☮:" No, no others. Yeah, I don't know. I'm really not mad about it... I don't know what it is, but it's ... [snip!] ... know... I feel more sad about it than mad or irritated or anything. I don't know how to explain how I feel. Bummed, I guess."



There's only one way to let him know how you feel and that's telling him. He made that comment to you so he obviously still thinks you're attractive. He might be scared of hurting you or something, idk.

☮Hippie Jesus☮ 2 kids; West Virginia 10560 posts
16th Aug '13

Peace!

K. P. Walsh Due August 5 (girl); Japan 1385 posts
16th Aug '13

Maybe you're giving him really good head & he's a little obsessed with that right now? Lol. SO went through a phase where he only wanted head because.. well.. you know ;)
That's not a bad thing? Right?
Why can't you just ask him point blank, "can we just have sex?"

☮Hippie Jesus☮ 2 kids; West Virginia 10560 posts
16th Aug '13

Peace!

K. P. Walsh Due August 5 (girl); Japan 1385 posts
16th Aug '13
Quoting ☮Hippie Jesus☮:" I guess I'm kind of worried that it might not come out right or it'll make him feel bad if it actually IS an age related thing..."

Ohhh.. Okay.
Well.. you gotta communicate woman. You'll never know if you don't just ask.

Mrs.Mud 6 kids; 2 angel babies; North Dakota 3314 posts
16th Aug '13

Stop being his c*m-bucket and demand the real thing?? I mean, I get your frustration but Idk why you're being such a pansy about just TALKING to him about it. Stop hinting, stop getting frustrated, stop s*****g his d**k and just freaking TALK to him! Communication can do wonders!

Addi&Aria'smama Due January 23 (girl); 1 child; 1 angel baby; Florissant, Missouri 6061 posts
16th Aug '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.Mud:</b>" Stop being his c*m-bucket and demand the real thing?? I mean, I get your frustration but Idk why you're ... [snip!] ... it. Stop hinting, stop getting frustrated, stop s*****g his d**k and just freaking TALK to him! Communication can do wonders!"</blockquote>



!!!
If you want actual sex then say it and stop s*****g his d**k. He is getting his regardless but you get to do all the work if he is getting his d**k sucked.

LA REINA™ New York, NY, United States 16675 posts
16th Aug '13
Quoting Mrs.Mud:" Stop being his c*m-bucket and demand the real thing?? I mean, I get your frustration but Idk why you're ... [snip!] ... it. Stop hinting, stop getting frustrated, stop s*****g his d**k and just freaking TALK to him! Communication can do wonders!"


Agreed. Hope you get penetration soon OP.

Lillith Abendroth 2 kids; Columbus, Ohio 248 posts
17th Aug '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting BOB MARLEY

Nicola. 2 kids; Huntsville, AL, United States 8925 posts
status 17th Aug '13

I think you just need to tell him you want sex.



As far as not having sex for four months, some guys are weird about having sex late in pregnancy for many different reasons. Then you have 6 weeks PP that you aren't cleared for sex. You have been cleared for a week but still haven't told him you want to have sex. He may not want to push you, in case your body isn't ready.



Maybe you could initiate sex. Come on to him and take charge.

LA REINA™ New York, NY, United States 16675 posts
17th Aug '13
Quoting Nicola.:" I think you just need to tell him you want sex. As far as not having sex for four months, some guys ... [snip!] ... He may not want to push you, in case your body isn't ready. Maybe you could initiate sex. Come on to him and take charge."


I usually just ask "Hey, wanna f**k?" and get things going :lol:

Nicola. 2 kids; Huntsville, AL, United States 8925 posts
status 17th Aug '13
Quoting BOB MARLEY