Anal Sticks N Stones 16 kids; 1 angel baby; Illinois 5094 posts
18th Aug

Any tips/suggestions on how to make it painless for a 1st timer..we don't have any KY gel but we do have some baby oil..

penispenispenisVAGINA 4 kids; Idaho 6992 posts
18th Aug

Get drunk :) and lots of lube. Or do it int he shower and let the water run back there. That helps too.

Jennybananna 2 kids; Gilbert, AZ, United States 25079 posts
18th Aug

Go get some good lube. If you arent pregnant have a few drinks. The more relaxed you are the better. Have him really focus on you get you really turned on then start slow with just a finger and him play and kinda go in a circular motion adding another finger slowly. Use lube and tons of it (even with fingers) Go slow and make sure he is listening to you.

jazzzzz* 2 kids; Beverly Hills, California 7558 posts
18th Aug

Take a shot lol

KristaAnne 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ, VT, United States 19461 posts
18th Aug
Quoting jazzzzz*:" Take a shot lol"

or 3 hehe

Marko'Pokomo Akron, OH, United States 3660 posts
18th Aug

Keep calm!

La~La 4 kids; Houston, Texas 22034 posts
18th Aug
Quoting KristaAnne ☺:" or 3 hehe"

or twelve

Turtley Mikey Due October 31; 2 kids; California 50611 posts
18th Aug

Definitely USE lube. Drink some, maybe even have him nibble on your ear to distract you from the unpleasant first entry. :)

*Queen Bitch* (Expecting! Due December 20; TTC since Aug 2013; Georgia 1630 posts
18th Aug

I agree with the rest. Get drunk and use lots of lube. Try to be as relaxed as possible. If you've never done it before then there's a good chance you won't enjoy your first time trying it but it's not so bad when you're in the mood for it.

Shannon +4 52 kids; Beaumont, Alberta 7542 posts
18th Aug

Wait until you have lube or be scared for life :D

GrumpsMama 1 child; Whiskey Dick Mountain, WA, United States 15824 posts
18th Aug


S ♥ J ♥ L 1 child; 3 angel babies; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 3692 posts
18th Aug

go VERY slow, relax as much as you can. And keep at it. The first few times me and SO tried it, it was so painful. One night, I was determined to do it - and we went so slow and took it easy.

EVANOMZ 1 child; Texas 73 posts
19th Aug

relax, lube up, astroglide is your friend.