Any tips/suggestions on how to make it painless for a 1st timer..we don't have any KY gel but we do have some baby oil..
Get drunk :) and lots of lube. Or do it int he shower and let the water run back there. That helps too.
Go get some good lube. If you arent pregnant have a few drinks. The more relaxed you are the better. Have him really focus on you get you really turned on then start slow with just a finger and him play and kinda go in a circular motion adding another finger slowly. Use lube and tons of it (even with fingers) Go slow and make sure he is listening to you.
Quoting jazzzzz*:" Take a shot lol"
or 3 hehe
Quoting KristaAnne ☺:" or 3 hehe"
Definitely USE lube. Drink some, maybe even have him nibble on your ear to distract you from the unpleasant first entry. :)
I agree with the rest. Get drunk and use lots of lube. Try to be as relaxed as possible. If you've never done it before then there's a good chance you won't enjoy your first time trying it but it's not so bad when you're in the mood for it.
Wait until you have lube or be scared for life :D
go VERY slow, relax as much as you can. And keep at it. The first few times me and SO tried it, it was so painful. One night, I was determined to do it - and we went so slow and took it easy.