a**l Sticks N Stones 16 kids; 1 angel baby; Illinois 4882 posts18th Aug
Any tips/suggestions on how to make it painless for a 1st timer..we don't have any KY gel but we do have some baby oil..
penispenispenisVAGINA Due December 23; Idaho 6705 posts18th Aug
Get drunk :) and lots of lube. Or do it int he shower and let the water run back there. That helps too.
Jennybananna 2 kids; Gilbert, AZ, United States 25079 posts18th Aug
Go get some good lube. If you arent pregnant have a few drinks. The more relaxed you are the better. Have him really focus on you get you really turned on then start slow with just a finger and him play and kinda go in a circular motion adding another finger slowly. Use lube and tons of it (even with fingers) Go slow and make sure he is listening to you.
KristaAnne 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ, VT, United States 16562 posts18th Aug
Quoting jazzzzz*:" Take a shot lol"
or 3 hehe
La~La 4 kids; Houston, Texas 22030 posts18th Aug
Quoting KristaAnne ☺:" or 3 hehe"
Turtley Mikey Due October 30; 2 kids; California 50606 posts18th Aug
Definitely USE lube. Drink some, maybe even have him nibble on your ear to distract you from the unpleasant first entry. :)
Queen Bitch TTC since Aug 2013; Georgia 1389 posts18th Aug
I agree with the rest. Get drunk and use lots of lube. Try to be as relaxed as possible. If you've never done it before then there's a good chance you won't enjoy your first time trying it but it's not so bad when you're in the mood for it.
Shannon +4 52 kids; Beaumont, Alberta 7414 posts18th Aug
Wait until you have lube or be scared for life :D
S ♥ J ♥ L 1 child; 3 angel babies; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 3306 posts18th Aug
go VERY slow, relax as much as you can. And keep at it. The first few times me and SO tried it, it was so painful. One night, I was determined to do it - and we went so slow and took it easy.