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- Tell me -- Votes: 34
- Don't tell me -- Votes: 40
- Other -- Votes: 0
I would NOT want to know. I was actually in a similar situation. DH and I had been together about 2 1/2 years at that point and he told me that he cheated when we had been together for a few months, and it was once and it never happened again after that. I wish he hadn't told me.
I would rather he respected me enough to tell me. Even if it's years down the track. You shouldn't keep things hidden from your partner.