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Need advice ASAP Megan R Kay Due June 9; New Mexico 82 posts
19th Aug

Okay so this is a long story sorry. My first day of my last period was May 25th on July 5th I took a test and got a BFP two days later July 7th I woke up from a cramp covered in blood went to the er they did an ultrasound said they couldn't find anything and sent me home with a miscarriage they said I would pass everything on my own and my OB would do follow up blood work and a ultrasound in a few days. I bled till the day I went to my OBs office which was July 11th I sat in the lobby for 2 hours before they told me they had to reschedule for July 15th due to there wasn't even in a dr in that day. On the 15th I went in and sat another 3 hours for the dr to NOT EVEN TOUCH ME and tell me he didn't believe it was far enough to be a real pregnancy and that I need to get on birth control so this doesn't happen again. So he sends me away and tells me that I can have the birth control in 2-3 weeks when my period. So a month went by no period went back to the dr and they tested my hcg and it was going back up but STILL didnt examine
Me 4 days later I took a digital home test that was positive went back to the dr a few days after that and they confirmed it but STILL no exam they said they don't know if I'm "still pregnant" or "pregnant again" so I'm between 4-12 weeks pregnant but they are assuming 4 so won't schedule an exam till I'd be about 10 weeks. I found a new dr but they can't see me till September 13th. 4-12 weeks is a huge gap!!

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15213 posts
19th Aug

You need to go to a new doctor.



Any normal doctor would've given you exams and an ultrasound once your levels started going up.

penispenispenisVAGINA 4 kids; Idaho 6992 posts
19th Aug

Are you having any issues right now at all? Bleeding, cramping? Anything at all that could be a cause for concern?

Yaj +2 1/2 Due December 29; 18 kids; Longueuil, Quebec 27 posts
19th Aug

My fiancee wasnt sure if she was 5 or 9 weeks because she didnt have her period in 2 months. She went to the hospital and had an ultrasound that confirmed her at 5 weeks. If they saw nothing when you started bleeding I think you are 4 weeks Miss. Good luck

Megan R Kay Due June 9; New Mexico 82 posts
19th Aug

Today I've been cramping but no more bleeding I called the dr and they just said drink water

penispenispenisVAGINA 4 kids; Idaho 6992 posts
19th Aug
Quoting Megan R Kay:" Today I've been cramping but no more bleeding I called the dr and they just said drink water"


I was going to say go to the er or Urgent care and be seen if you were having issues.

Fusselinchen 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Fort Bragg, NC, United States 16176 posts
20th Aug

go to a different doctor. you wouldnt want to deal with that kind of stuff happening for the next 9 months. only puts more stress on you than you need.

afantastic 2 kids; Dallas, Texas 588 posts
20th Aug

<blockquote><b>Quoting Fusselinchen:</b>" go to a different doctor. you wouldnt want to deal with that kind of stuff happening for the next 9 months. only puts more stress on you than you need."</blockquote>



I agree, sounds like the making of a douchey doctor experience. No bueno.



I cramped a little with my first child when I was pregnant. It could just be your body adjusting to being pregnant, but it could be something worse.