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Venting/not sure what to do TheirMommy :) 2 kids; New York 17 posts
20th Aug '13

So long story short.. I was with a guy that treated my daughter like his own. We have a daughter now together as well. We got engaged and I panicked and made a huge mistake by talking to a guy I worked with.. Nothing happened between us until me and bd broke up.. It was only a kiss.. Nothing more. Well we tried working things out until he found a girl he became interested in. He left us for 9 months for this girl only to have her leave him during the night. One intoxicated night I text bd (we were one horrible terms) and asked to hang out. Ever since we have been talking once more trying to work things out.. He doesn't know what he wants and it's been 3 months that we have been talking.. He says I'm the only girl he is involved with but I still have a hard time trusting him especially since he won't tell me who his female friends are. He claims nothing is going on but if there was nothing he should have no problem telling me who try are. I'm jut so confused what to do. He doesn't show me very much affection anymore. He says he has days where it is hard. But it makes me feel like I'm not good enough and unwanted.. Would you ride it out and hope things get better? Or just give up and move on? I'm going to be posting and running I need to go to sleep.. Ill be back on in the am. Thank you for any one who reads this..
Thank you
One hurt mamma

☆º×ß¡±©µ×º☆ Due September 18 (girl); 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Centralia, Washington 45169 posts
20th Aug '13

Give up move on . hes hiding something if he cant tell you who his female friends are

ෆ Mαgicαℓ ℓove ෆ 3 kids; Amsterdam, No, Netherlands 1400 posts
20th Aug '13

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Turtley Mikey Due October 31; 2 kids; California 50611 posts
20th Aug '13

He doesn't tell you who his female friends are? What are you all, like 12? Sounds like juvenile behavior, not a relationship that's based on trust, commitment, and honesty. You seem pretty young, so I wouldn't just settle for second best. Wait for the man who is going to be the one that rocks your world, treats you like a queen, and is the most loyal. This he said she said bullshit is dumb.

SurvivingApril 18 kids; West Virginia 174 posts
20th Aug '13

It's been three months and he still doesn't know what he wants? Then he is crazy. If he wants to be with you, in three months, he would be.



Give up I would say.. easier to say than do, I know though :/

TheirMommy :) 2 kids; New York 17 posts
21st Aug '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Turtley Mikey:</b>" He doesn't tell you who his female friends are? What are you all, like 12? Sounds like juvenile behavior, ... [snip!] ... to be the one that rocks your world, treats you like a queen, and is the most loyal. This he said she said bullshit is dumb."</blockquote>



I'm 22 and he is 24.

TheirMommy :) 2 kids; New York 17 posts
21st Aug '13

He keeps saying he doesn't want to lose me and he missed so much of his daughters life when he left and doesn't wan to miss anymore.. But says he doesn't know what he wants. He doesn't know what's going to happen in the future (who really does?!?) it's just so annoying. I put my all into working our family out and at times it just feels like he doesn't give a shit. But then there are days where he is so affectionate and makes me feel like a queen. Idk I guess I need to sit down and talk to him and give him an ultimatum. Either he changes his bullshit or I'm gone. I have the world on my side and right now he is just bringing me down.

☠BryBry'sMuM☠ Due March 19 (girl); 1 child; Fullerton, California 15229 posts
21st Aug '13

i say give up! he should know after 3 months if he wants to be with or not.