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Alex Vause 3 kids; ........., BC, Canada 3826 posts
13th Sep '13
Quoting CLC 9 weeks:" <blockquote><b>Quoting My Brain On Drugs:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting CLC ... [snip!] ... after no heartbeat on Wednesday ya I'm pretty sure. I guess I'm glad I had a heads up before the bleeding and cramping started."


I am so sorry. I am very sad for you :(

CLC TTC since Jul 2009; 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Nebraska 1735 posts
13th Sep '13

Once I get better I will do the last couple updates hat way someone can copy and paste the list but I'm gonna wait til I see my Dr on Monday and make sure everything's gone I guess. 4 yrs of TTC and ivf. I didn't need this too!

Gabi's Mom Due April 25; 1 child; Poland 78 posts
13th Sep '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting CLC 9 weeks:</b>" Once I get better I will do the last couple updates hat way someone can copy and paste the list but I'm ... [snip!] ... I'm gonna wait til I see my Dr on Monday and make sure everything's gone I guess. 4 yrs of TTC and ivf. I didn't need this too!"</blockquote>




I'm very,very sorry. That's unjust that womem who try to have a baby for so long and finally are pregnant have to suffer like this. Hugs.....



I don't exackly know how epidurial works but here we get a medicine straight into your spine( but slightly different than during c-section). But doctor decides when to inject it and this is just for the first and second phase. Then the effect dissapears and you still feel the contractions so you can controll it. For me it was a great relief as it lasted almost 8 hours. Then the midwife decided I wouldn't get another dose becauce I was going into the last phase. But i think epidurial works for the whole labor That's why its not so good for the baby.

A&B +1 Due April 3; 2 kids; New Hampshire 1306 posts
14th Sep '13
Quoting CLC 9 weeks:" Once I get better I will do the last couple updates hat way someone can copy and paste the list but I'm ... [snip!] ... I'm gonna wait til I see my Dr on Monday and make sure everything's gone I guess. 4 yrs of TTC and ivf. I didn't need this too!"

I'm so sorry mama :( I am so heartbroken for you.



What was baby measuring at your ultrasound?

CLC TTC since Jul 2009; 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Nebraska 1735 posts
14th Sep '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting A&B +1:</b>" I'm so sorry mama :( I am so heartbroken for you. What was baby measuring at your ultrasound? "</blockquote>



The dr had a hard time finding the baby so the wasn't much to measure.

ILOVEWINE Due April 24; 2 kids; Sweden 10814 posts
14th Sep '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting CLC 9 weeks:</b>" Once I get better I will do the last couple updates hat way someone can copy and paste the list but I'm ... [snip!] ... I'm gonna wait til I see my Dr on Monday and make sure everything's gone I guess. 4 yrs of TTC and ivf. I didn't need this too!"</blockquote>




I'm sorry mama

CLC TTC since Jul 2009; 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Nebraska 1735 posts
14th Sep '13

Well we are at the ER bc the hdryocodone wasn't cutting the pain. I'm not bleeding very much though. Well they did a much more thorough ultrasound here. It was arch clearer picture. You could see the baby's head and body and little arm and leg buds but I could not see the heartbeat. The baby was only measuring 6 w 5 d.

Mrs. Feliz. 2 kids; New Jersey 10030 posts
14th Sep '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting CLC 9 weeks:</b>" Well we are at the ER bc the hdryocodone wasn't cutting the pain. I'm not bleeding very much though. ... [snip!] ... the baby's head and body and little arm and leg buds but I could not see the heartbeat. The baby was only measuring 6 w 5 d."</blockquote>



I'm so, so sorry. :( try and keep your head up, as hard as that sounds. I hope you get your answers. Try to remember that everything happens for a reason. <3 ;hugs;

A&B +1 Due April 3; 2 kids; New Hampshire 1306 posts
14th Sep '13
Quoting CLC 9 weeks:" Well we are at the ER bc the hdryocodone wasn't cutting the pain. I'm not bleeding very much though. ... [snip!] ... the baby's head and body and little arm and leg buds but I could not see the heartbeat. The baby was only measuring 6 w 5 d."


Ugh I can't imagine the pain you feel right now. I will be praying for you and your family. xoxo

My Brain On Drugs TTC since Sep 2013; 33 kids; Elephant Butte, New Mexico 15758 posts
14th Sep '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting CLC 9 weeks:</b>" Well we are at the ER bc the hdryocodone wasn't cutting the pain. I'm not bleeding very much though. ... [snip!] ... the baby's head and body and little arm and leg buds but I could not see the heartbeat. The baby was only measuring 6 w 5 d."</blockquote>



That happened to me at 12 weeks the first time I was pregnant. I felt so betrayed by my body, angry. Yes the devastation of losing the pregnancy but also feeling like my body misled me, with an extra 6 weeks of symptoms. I ultimately decided to trust my body again and you will too. It was hard, though.
I will pray that you can become pregnant again very easily when you feel healed from this loss enough to try again, and also that your pain as its happening will subside soon. I'm so sorry this is happening to you.

CLC TTC since Jul 2009; 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Nebraska 1735 posts
14th Sep '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting My Brain On Drugs:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting CLC 9 weeks:</b>" Well we are at the ER bc the hdryocodone wasn't ... [snip!] ... loss enough to try again, and also that your pain as its happening will subside soon. I'm so sorry this is happening to you."</blockquote>




I will have to do ivf again. I have really bad eggs. In fact my oB and I were speculating that my other eggs that wouldn't fertilize bc they were abnormal. So maybe this one was abnormal too.

CLC TTC since Jul 2009; 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Nebraska 1735 posts
14th Sep '13

Headed for a D & C now

Randilion 2 kids; Jared Leto's Pants, :D, Antarctica 10843 posts
14th Sep '13

:( I'm sorry mama. I wish you the best in your journey to having your rainbow baby. Let me know if you'd like us to start a new thread. ♥

Mrs. Fosty 3 kids; 2 angel babies; Massachusetts 1457 posts
14th Sep '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting CLC 9 weeks:</b>" Headed for a D & C now"</blockquote>



So sorry :( hugs

*BookLovinMomma* 3 kids; USA 151 posts
14th Sep '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting CLC 9 weeks:</b>" Headed for a D & C now"</blockquote>




I am so so sorry Mama. (((Hugs))) praying for guys.