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Adult activity=adult responsibility You and me + 4 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4133 posts
21st Aug

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Phallus Cranium fuknutz, NM, Togo 103409 posts
21st Aug

I think it's funny that she thinks she will know when they are sexually active :lol:

JnMsMommy** 2 kids; Brooklyn, NY, United States 5720 posts
21st Aug

but what about if its not their fault?

JnMsMommy** 2 kids; Brooklyn, NY, United States 5720 posts
21st Aug

but what about if its not their fault?

Phallus Cranium fuknutz, NM, Togo 103409 posts
21st Aug

double post :roll:

Addi's Momma TTC since Jul 2012; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Florissant, Missouri 4994 posts
21st Aug

Sounds like an interesting plan but like the poster said, how will she know? If the kid knows that they will basically be cut off if they have sex then the kid is going to hide it from her.

You and me + 4 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4133 posts
21st Aug
Quoting .Colleen.:" I think it's funny that she thinks she will know when they are sexually active :lol:"


I hope that my child would come to me before losing his/her virginity and im sure like me she feels the same.

You and me + 4 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4133 posts
21st Aug
Quoting JnMsMommy**:" but what about if its not their fault?"


I dont think she means in the case of rape.

Phallus Cranium fuknutz, NM, Togo 103409 posts
21st Aug
Quoting You and me + 3:" I hope that my child would come to me before losing his/her virginity and im sure like me she feels the same."

do you know alot of teens who have gone to their moms prior to sex?

eKnuckles Due February 13; Florida 3438 posts
21st Aug

I understand to a certain extent. If they want to have sex -a very 'adult' thing to do- then they should be ready to have some bit of responsibility. But I don't see how that also means the parent should no longer be responsible for their kid.

You and me + 4 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4133 posts
21st Aug
Quoting .Colleen.:" do you know alot of teens who have gone to their moms prior to sex?"


No but i also know teen pregnancy rates are on the rise bc of this. I want to have this type of relationship with my children so my child does not become a statistic.

JnMsMommy** 2 kids; Brooklyn, NY, United States 5720 posts
21st Aug
Quoting .Colleen.:" double post :roll:"


sorry not my fault

Severus Snape Due March 15 (boy); 1 child; Tennessee 3511 posts
21st Aug
Quoting .Colleen.:" I think it's funny that she thinks she will know when they are sexually active :lol:"


:!: This.



I can see them pushing them to get a job for the work experience or something but they shouldn't suddenly have to support themselves completely. It's still the parent's responsibilities to care for the child and cover their basic needs.

Sherri + 3 LLC 3 kids; Mesa, Arizona 3758 posts
21st Aug
Quoting .Colleen.:" I think it's funny that she thinks she will know when they are sexually active :lol:"


LOL! This exactly. My Mother never knew when I became sexually active. It was not something that we talked about.

tonys_mama(army wife) 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Fort Irwin, California 15523 posts
21st Aug

I think she needs to be a little more open minded about it. My parents were very against having sex at a young age and never really talked to us about safe sex just no sex and I got pregnant at 16. If she thinks telling her kids that is going to keep them from having sex she is very wrong.