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Adult activity=adult responsibility user banned
Aug 21st '13

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JnMsMommy** 2 kids; Brooklyn, NY, United States 5741 posts
Aug 21st '13

but what about if its not their fault?

JnMsMommy** 2 kids; Brooklyn, NY, United States 5741 posts
Aug 21st '13

but what about if its not their fault?

Addi&Aria'smama 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Florissant, Missouri 7534 posts
Aug 21st '13

Sounds like an interesting plan but like the poster said, how will she know? If the kid knows that they will basically be cut off if they have sex then the kid is going to hide it from her.

user banned 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4666 posts
Aug 21st '13
Quoting .Colleen.:" I think it's funny that she thinks she will know when they are sexually active :lol:"


I hope that my child would come to me before losing his/her virginity and im sure like me she feels the same.

user banned 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4666 posts
Aug 21st '13
Quoting JnMsMommy**:" but what about if its not their fault?"


I dont think she means in the case of rape.

eKnuckles Due February 13; Florida 3475 posts
Aug 21st '13

I understand to a certain extent. If they want to have sex -a very 'adult' thing to do- then they should be ready to have some bit of responsibility. But I don't see how that also means the parent should no longer be responsible for their kid.

user banned 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4666 posts
Aug 21st '13
Quoting .Colleen.:" do you know alot of teens who have gone to their moms prior to sex?"


No but i also know teen pregnancy rates are on the rise bc of this. I want to have this type of relationship with my children so my child does not become a statistic.

JnMsMommy** 2 kids; Brooklyn, NY, United States 5741 posts
Aug 21st '13
Quoting .Colleen.:" double post :roll:"


sorry not my fault

Severus Snape 2 kids; Tennessee 3550 posts
Aug 21st '13
Quoting .Colleen.:" I think it's funny that she thinks she will know when they are sexually active :lol:"


:!: This.



I can see them pushing them to get a job for the work experience or something but they shouldn't suddenly have to support themselves completely. It's still the parent's responsibilities to care for the child and cover their basic needs.

Sherri + 3 LLC 3 kids; Mesa, Arizona 3758 posts
Aug 21st '13
Quoting .Colleen.:" I think it's funny that she thinks she will know when they are sexually active :lol:"


LOL! This exactly. My Mother never knew when I became sexually active. It was not something that we talked about.

Mrs.C+4.5 5 kids; 1 angel baby; Duncan, OK, United States 17606 posts
Aug 21st '13

I think she needs to be a little more open minded about it. My parents were very against having sex at a young age and never really talked to us about safe sex just no sex and I got pregnant at 16. If she thinks telling her kids that is going to keep them from having sex she is very wrong.

=^•^= NO, OD, France 36235 posts
Aug 21st '13
Quoting .Colleen.:" I think it's funny that she thinks she will know when they are sexually active :lol:"


:!:
LOL



Oh lord, what are they going to do to prove it? I just don't understand this over reaction to something biological normal as sex.

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
Aug 21st '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting You and me + 3:</b>" No but i also know teen pregnancy rates are on the rise bc of this. I want to have this type of relationship with my children so my child does not become a statistic."</blockquote>




Every mom wants that, it's very rate for a mom to get it.




Regardless, teen pregnancy rates are actually decreasing and even if they were on the rise, that wouldn't necessarily be the reason.

user banned 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4666 posts
Aug 21st '13

Ok maybe im wording this wrong. I think she is saying things like sweet 16s and cars and basically the perks of being a kid is what they will loose out on once they make the decision to engage in sexual activity. Not that she is no longer going to take care of the child.



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