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once a cheater always a cheater? Milk*factory* 18 kids; Fredericktown-Millsboro, Pennsylvania 3090 posts
27th Aug '13

do you believe that ? just a random thought I have been seeing a lot of lately from friends and such. If a guy cheats on his girl with you, will he cheat on you too? what's your thoughts and opinions?

☮Hippie Jesus☮ 2 kids; West Virginia 10560 posts
27th Aug '13

Not always, no.

ℕightingale 1 child; Mississippi 7052 posts
27th Aug '13

Not always.

Black Cat 1 child; Fancy, PA, United States 3753 posts
27th Aug '13

I don't think so.



I was once a cheater.

Milk*factory* 18 kids; Fredericktown-Millsboro, Pennsylvania 3090 posts
27th Aug '13

I guess I believe everyone can change. I thought I was the only crazy one. I personally have never been in that situation.

Krystle ♥ 2 kids; New York 3923 posts
27th Aug '13

No I don't believe that

Marko'Pokomo ; Akron, OH, United States 3660 posts
27th Aug '13

No, I've cheated before. I don't cheat on my current SO
From experience though.. Being the "other girl" almost never leads to you being the only girl.

Milk*factory* 18 kids; Fredericktown-Millsboro, Pennsylvania 3090 posts
27th Aug '13
Quoting Miss Brittany:" I don't think so. I was once a cheater."


no judgment. I had my fair share.
just wondering though, the man you cheated with, are you with him now?

Black Cat 1 child; Fancy, PA, United States 3753 posts
27th Aug '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Milk*factory*:</b>" no judgment. I had my fair share. just wondering though, the man you cheated with, are you with him now?"</blockquote>



No.



ETA--I had no intention of an actual relationship with the guys I cheat with.

[BLB] is Expecting! Due January 22; TTC since Jun 2012; 1 child; 3 angel babies; Hasty, Colorado 16752 posts
27th Aug '13

No.



I have cheated. I have never cheated on DH. I never will.



People change. They get older, more mature, relationships change, morals grow stronger, etc...

Kait. 3 kids; Iowa 2345 posts
27th Aug '13
Being the "other girl" almost never leads to you being the only girl."


Very true. Never been in the situation personally, but know a lot of others who were the "other girl" for awhile then ended up being with the guy and getting cheated on in the end as well.

ρiηkie ρie 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Kentucky 21902 posts
27th Aug '13

Not always. I've cheated. It was a huge mistake and I don't do it now. Really just depends on the person I think.

lamr - 02-08-13-21 2 kids; Crazytown, ON, Canada 5963 posts
27th Aug '13

If you're talking about past relationships, then no. I cheated on an ex in the past. I felt horrible about it and broke up with him the next day.



I wouldn't dream of cheating on my husband.



I think that if you're talking about a person cheating and still being in the same relationship, then the chance of cheating again would be way higher. Just my opinion.

Amelia [a Mom] 1 child; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 15002 posts
27th Aug '13

No, not at all. Jerks will be jerks but humans make mistakes.

Sthrnprincess Due August 21 (girl); 3 kids; Upstate, SC, United States 7081 posts
27th Aug '13

I believe people can change.