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Turtley Mikey Due October 31; 2 kids; California 50611 posts
1st Sep '13

Eh, not really. I'm not one to get mad over a lot of things. He's free to do as he chooses. The whole anniversary thing and him being inconsiderate is what I'd be most upset about if anything.

[[Breezy]] 1 child; Savannah, Georgia 15457 posts
1st Sep '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~*CountryMom*~:</b>" The girls? No...I could careless because he's not going to go smurf them and I know it. But what makes ... [snip!] ... he just hid everything and that's the part I didn't like.....he would have been honest?? I wouldn't have cared one dang bit."</blockquote>



Yeah he wasn't being very considerate at all. You have absolutely every right to be upset.

Minion 3 kids; ., GA, United States 21802 posts
1st Sep '13

I have several issues with this.



First, it was your anniversary!!!! And he goes out without you???



Then he lied about how long he'd be gone.



He never checked in with you.



He didnt even speak to you when he got home....



He lied about where he was and who he was with!!!!



There are pictures of chicks with him.




I'd wake him up with ice water and let him have it. I wouldn't put up with that at all.

Lin Brown 2 kids; Tunnel Hill, Georgia 1806 posts
1st Sep '13

i'm sorry but there is a difference between caring what your SO/DH does and being up his ass. Calling and letting one or the other know whats going on would be considerate, now if they were calling or texting constantly or every half hour or so while one was out would be a little much. When my husband goes out with his buddies, he knows he will be out for a couple hours and he tells me that before he even leaves and then he will call or text when ever he goes out for a smoke to let me know everything is good and if they go to a different place then he will tell me, I do the same for him when i go out with my friends.

~*CountryMom*~ 4 kids; Hopkinsville, KY, United States 1404 posts
1st Sep '13

Who said anything about being up.the ass? I'll I've been saying is I wanted a call. Now had he been in any accident and ihad found out that way he was in Nashville-I'd been pretty upset.

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49349 posts
1st Sep '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Minion:</b>" I have several issues with this. First, it was your anniversary!!!! And he goes out without you??? ... [snip!] ... are pictures of chicks with him. I'd wake him up with ice water and let him have it. I wouldn't put up with that at all."</blockquote>




No today is their anniversary. Yesterday was not, that's when he went out.



I don't know why so many think the day before is sacred.



Like I said, I only would have issues with him not checking in. Plans change, that goes for the location as well. And maybe it's just me but for us celebrating our anniversary isn't an all day thing so even if we sleep in it's not ruined.

Minion 3 kids; ., GA, United States 21802 posts
1st Sep '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Minion:</b>" I have several issues with this. First, it was ... [snip!] ... And maybe it's just me but for us celebrating our anniversary isn't an all day thing so even if we sleep in it's not ruined."</blockquote>




Oh I see. I misread.



But still. It doesn't sound very respectful of him at all.

Mummy-2-2-Monsters Due July 11; 2 kids; Seven Hills, Australia 10485 posts
status 1st Sep '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Minion:</b>" I have several issues with this. First, it was ... [snip!] ... And maybe it's just me but for us celebrating our anniversary isn't an all day thing so even if we sleep in it's not ruined."</blockquote>



And also people tend to lose track of time too unless they are constantly watching the clock. So him being out for so long could have been just that. When you're drinking and having fun with mates time flies by and the next thing you know "oh shit it's been 6 hours??!? She's not going to be happy.. *drunken thinking* maybe if I just sneak in she won't notice and I can make up for it later.."



How are we to know that isn't what happened?



Shit happens, no ones perfect. Lets not condemn him for having a fun time and losing track of time.




And just because a man or woman is married doesn't mean they can have harmless fun with the opposite sex.

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
2nd Sep '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Spacetits:</b>" I agree that he should have told her. That would be my only issue. But that doesn't mean I think he lied to her. Have you never gotten carried away with something?"</blockquote>




Carried away, yes. But I've always checked in. And never with other guys.

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
2nd Sep '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:</b>" Reading some of these replies makes me thankful SO and I are secure in our relationship, and dont feel ... [snip!] ... in a knot about, and that when we have the chance to talk about it, Ill find out the innocence of it all and vice versa. "</blockquote>



I'm thankful our relationship is built on open communication and WANTING the other to know what w'ere doing. It's never an inconvenience or an issue. No trust issues. No arguments about it. Just courtesy.

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
2nd Sep '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mummy-2-2-Monsters:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... track of time. And just because a man or woman is married doesn't mean they can have harmless fun with the opposite sex."</blockquote>




Lol I've never been unaware that 6 hours had passed.

[[Breezy]] 1 child; Savannah, Georgia 15457 posts
2nd Sep '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:</b>" Reading some of these replies makes ... [snip!] ... other to know what w'ere doing. It's never an inconvenience or an issue. No trust issues. No arguments about it. Just courtesy."


Yuuup.