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Relationships. user banned
1st Sep

What are some things you look for in a partner? What do you like about your SO?



For me some thing I look for are --- trustworthy, funny, tall (For some reason I like guys that are over 6' - so sexy lol), kind, open/not cryptic, family person, responsible yet spontaneous.



Those are just a few I could think of.

penispenispenisVAGINA 4 kids; Idaho 6992 posts
1st Sep

Don't forget married.

Squid Kid Due July 2; 1 child; 5 angel babies; Tennessee 27642 posts
1st Sep

When I first saw DH, I was interested in someone else. I wasn't looking for a relationship but the moment I saw him I had an emotion so strong that it was a physical feeling and this ominous kind of voice that said "I'm going to be with him". And then, five years later, we were married. He was my only relationship- I wasn't looking for anything in particular, it was just this weird click.



If I had to do it again, I'd look for someone laid back, tidy, good with kids, good sense of humour, sarcastic, doesn't take things seriously, is a go-getter and keeps their word.

user banned 1 child; Germany 12377 posts
1st Sep
Quoting penispenispenisVAGINA:" Don't forget married. "

Damn, stole my reply lol

мɑkɑnɑni ~*~, FL, United States 62857 posts
1st Sep
Quoting penispenispenisVAGINA:" Don't forget married. "


:?:

penispenispenisVAGINA 4 kids; Idaho 6992 posts
1st Sep
Quoting Uncle Jesse:" Damn, stole my reply lol"


Bwahahahaha :twisted:

Miss Brittany 1 child; Here, PA, United States 3747 posts
1st Sep

I like tall guys with dark hair. Good sense of humor. Smart. Caring. Sweet. Someone who knows his priorities. Someone who doesn't get offended too easily, because I like to joke and can be offensive sometimes. Plus someone who can accept me for who I am.



When I met SO, I was smitten. We had the best first date. I've never met someone who I could have a great conversation with like that.

Thorian's Mommy 1 child; Westbrook, ME, United States 8379 posts
status 1st Sep

When I was younger I wanted someone who was tall, hard working, religious or had good morals...etc but I started to talk to a guy in one of my classes. We became friends ans I started to fall in love with him. Weve been dating for 8 yrs now. He is only 5'1 and im 5'7. He doesnt believe in anything religious and he can be rebel at times but I love him :)

user banned Japan 1310 posts
1st Sep
Quoting Miss Brittany:" I like tall guys with dark hair. Good sense of humor. Smart. Caring. Sweet. Someone who knows his priorities. ... [snip!] ... met SO, I was smitten. We had the best first date. I've never met someone who I could have a great conversation with like that."



That connection is really important to me. I love it when you instantly hit it off with someone.

Where the ♥ is, 1 child; Nevada 73 posts
1st Sep

My DH is pretty much everything I was looking for. When we first met we had an instant connection and became friends immediately. Almost every other guy I met before him never bothered to be my friend first, they all just wanted to jump into a relationship. He was nice, friendly, funny, caring, trustworthy, faithful. He had never been in a serious relationship, so we were each others first real relationship which was special to me and that was what I always wanted. And for physical looks I liked guys that were tall and had dark hair and preferably light eyes, which he had all of those. So I was really impressed :P

✌Nikki☀ 1 child; Illinois 2110 posts
2nd Sep
Quoting penispenispenisVAGINA:" Don't forget married. "


lol:D

✌Nikki☀ 1 child; Illinois 2110 posts
2nd Sep
Quoting αutumnαl:" :?:"

Go read some of her other topics... if she hasn't deleted them already. You'll make the connection :lol:

Derp TTC since Jan 2014; 1 child; Camp Lejeune, NC, United States 11449 posts
2nd Sep

Now that I'm older?



- Intelligence
- Stability
- Education
- Self sufficiency
- Healthy/fit



Basically a guy who has his shit together, doesn't get arrested every other year, is educated, can provide, is kind, etc. etc.



My husband possesses all qualities listed and I love it. It's nice to have a partner you can brag about. After years of dating absolute losers it is such a gratifying feeling. I know it sounds ridiculous but it's true.