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Would you do it anyway? Landy's Mama <3 1 child; Ashland, Kentucky 1571 posts
2nd Sep '13

If you wanted to change your appearance like the color of your hair or style of your hair and your SO didn't want you to and says he would be mad if you did it.. would you do it anyway? I feel like i can't do what i want without him interfering with the decision.

.Jezebel. 1 child; Sumter, South Carolina 9365 posts
2nd Sep '13

It depends. If he was against a crazy color, maybe. If I wanted to cut my hair I'd do it anyway.

Mak&Row 18 kids; Portland, Oregon 763 posts
2nd Sep '13

My hair, my choice

Peter Pan Due February 18; Japan 872 posts
2nd Sep '13

I would and he would do the same if it was the other way around.

Landy's Mama <3 1 child; Ashland, Kentucky 1571 posts
2nd Sep '13
Quoting s.a.r.a.:" It depends. If he was against a crazy color, maybe. If I wanted to cut my hair I'd do it anyway."


Hes against me dying it any color. Or getting a perm.

.Jezebel. 1 child; Sumter, South Carolina 9365 posts
2nd Sep '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~*Kelz*~:</b>" Hes against me dying it any color. Or getting a perm. "</blockquote>



Yeah, that's dumb. Do you tell him what to do with his hair?



He'll get over it, do what you want. Lol

Minion 3 kids; ., GA, United States 21705 posts
2nd Sep '13

I take his opinion into consideration but in the end I choose what I want.

Lin Brown 2 kids; Tunnel Hill, Georgia 1804 posts
2nd Sep '13

i would take his opinion into consideration and ask like what color or hair style he would like me to do, but i would never go behind his back and do it anyways just because then that would just cause a unneccessary fight or argument

mom of three 3 kids; Missouri 5571 posts
status 2nd Sep '13

personally, no.... But thats just DH's and my relationship. He doesnt mess with his facial hair (cuz I love it) and I dont mess with my head hair or p***s (cuz he loves it)... But in past relationships I would've.



But at the same time, if I REALLY REALLY had my heart set on it, DH wouldnt have a problem with it.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36521 posts
2nd Sep '13

Honestly no body is going to tell me what I can and can not do with my own hair.

Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 9100 posts
2nd Sep '13

It's easier to get forgiveness than permission lol

Black Cat 1 child; Marvel, PA, United States 3809 posts
2nd Sep '13

I do whatever I want to my hair. He's seen me with bright red hair, dark brown, almost black with pink, and blonde. He prefers me blonde, so I take that into consideration. I ask his opinion, but it's not a deciding factor for me.

Turtley Mikey Due October 31; 2 kids; California 50611 posts
2nd Sep '13

Ugh yeah, it's my hair, I'd do what I wanted.

_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
2nd Sep '13

I may ask his opinion and consider it, but at the end I will do as I like with my body. He does what he wants with his. I am not a doll for him to play dress up with. I am not a fixture for him to make sure I compliment the style he feels I should have. I am a person, and I'll do as I like. Thankfully, he understands this and is well aware that telling me not to do something is probably the fastest way to get me to do it, lol

lacTAYtor. ☮ 3 kids; North Carolina 4496 posts
2nd Sep '13

I always ask DHs opinions before I do anything to my hair -- just to get suggestions, but ultimately it's my hair, so it's my choice.