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NeitherHereNorThere Due January 28 (boy); 4 kids; New York City, NY, Ireland 332 posts
Sep 4th '13
Quoting Queen B*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Summerfrost:</b>" Anyone else feel like there's a huge life ... [snip!] ... What lesson would that be? That it takes time to become pregnant. I think I'll become pregnant quick, if not big deal."


you could have a lot of scar tissue form the abortions - that can make it very hard.... nothing is for sure - I think the other ladies nailed it, so I wont say it all again.

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42788 posts
Sep 4th '13

I got pregnant the very first time I had sex and 4 other times on birth control but when I didn't care about getting pregnant and had unprotected sex for 8 months I was never even late a day.....

Squid Kid Unavailable, NA, United States 32450 posts
Sep 4th '13
Quoting babyboysmama:" you could have a lot of scar tissue form the abortions - that can make it very hard.... nothing is for sure - I think the other ladies nailed it, so I wont say it all again."


:!:
The scar tissue can cause miscarriages and make it hard to sustain a pregnancy. it's one of my biggest worries after having my MMC D&C

*Bri's Mommy :) 1 child; California 2662 posts
Sep 4th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" I mean it's a stupid question to begin with. We don't know your mother so how can anyone say how she'll ... [snip!] ... Also, it sounds like you're immature and irresponsible so that might be where the lack of confidence in her support lies :wink:"</blockquote>



Ugh ladies.. Again come on, I am 21 years old so I may not be as mature as you. Because I have some care for my parents feelings? Goodness if I said, I dont give a F what my mother says.. Im 21, I own a home inspection company where I employ 3 inspectors, my husband owns a landscaping company where we employ 5 landscapers, I'm also in school for computer engineering I'm not just some idiot who doesn't know what's up. I really just wanted to type what was on my.mind, I figured a few hey 3 years is too close, 3 years is ok.. Your.mom will get over it or whatever but damn I mean I feel like im in an argument now because i said im fertile lol. Omg. Im sorry ladies. And i know.its just your opinions but goodness I thought, hey some woman support. Wrong place for that. Thanks and goodbye.

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42788 posts
Sep 4th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Squid Kid:</b>" :!: The scar tissue can cause miscarriages and make it hard to sustain a pregnancy. it's one of my biggest worries after having my MMC D&C"</blockquote>




You're more likely to retain scar tissue from giving birth. Safe and legal abortions very, very early lead to compilations, even after 10.

*Bri's Mommy :) 1 child; California 2662 posts
Sep 4th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Squid Kid:</b>" :!: The scar tissue can cause miscarriages and make it hard to sustain a pregnancy. it's one of my biggest worries after having my MMC D&C"</blockquote>




I posted a few days back, worried about this also. My doctor said they were very early and done by medication so I shouldnt worry but, cant help but think.

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42788 posts
Sep 4th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Queen B*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" I mean it's a stupid question to begin with. ... [snip!] ... And i know.its just your opinions but goodness I thought, hey some woman support. Wrong place for that. Thanks and goodbye."</blockquote>



Uh...I'm barely 22.

Summerfrost 51 kids; Massachusetts 6871 posts
Sep 4th '13
Quoting Queen B*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" I mean it's a stupid question to begin with. ... [snip!] ... And i know.its just your opinions but goodness I thought, hey some woman support. Wrong place for that. Thanks and goodbye."


There is a huge difference between saying 'I'm fertile' and saying 'I KNOW i'm going to get pregnant this month and I hope I don't rub my uber fertility in my SIL face' Pregnancy just doesn't work like that. It took me 6 years to get pregnant the first time. I lost my son at 23 weeks. Then I got pregnant 4 more times with or without birthcontrol about once a year give or take without trying and without medication. Some stuck, some didn't.



I'm saying you just don't sound very experienced. You don't think it's a big deal to not get pregnant quickly or to lose a pregnancy you wanted, but I'm telling you... it's an emotional eye opening experience. Pregnancy doesn't always = baby and Having unprotected sex doesn't always = pregnancy.

*Bri's Mommy :) 1 child; California 2662 posts
Sep 4th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting The Bear and The Bird:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Queen B*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" ... [snip!] ... goodness I thought, hey some woman support. Wrong place for that. Thanks and goodbye."</blockquote> Uh...I'm barely 22."</blockquote>




I didn't mean you hun, that was to the women saying I have a life lesson comming.
Thank you for the replies, I appreciate it. Good to hear early abortions dont cause much damage. I always worry about complications

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42788 posts
Sep 4th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Queen B*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting The Bear and The Bird:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... you for the replies, I appreciate it. Good to hear early abortions dont cause much damage. I always worry about complications"</blockquote>




I said the same thing. You're an idiot and opening yourself up for heartache and disappointment.

*Bri's Mommy :) 1 child; California 2662 posts
Sep 4th '13

Ok nevermind f**k all.of you b***hes who sit here on the computer looking for a woman to make a mistake or ask for a little reassurance. Bye b***hes. Dont even reply I wont be back to read it. Get a job. LOL

user banned 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Indiana 75866 posts
Sep 4th '13
Quoting Queen B*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Summerfrost:</b>" Anyone else feel like there's a huge life ... [snip!] ... What lesson would that be? That it takes time to become pregnant. I think I'll become pregnant quick, if not big deal."


Yeah... that's what I thought. The first time my DH and I didn't use a condom, I got pregnant. Then when we started trying, it seemed to take forever. It took a year and a half to conceive my youngest, and we had 3 miscarriages in that time. Try not to think, "oh, it will happen this month", because chances are, you're going to be disappointed. Everyone is just trying to save you the heartache, because we've all been there, but you're taking offense to it. You need to grow some thicker skin.

Squid Kid Unavailable, NA, United States 32450 posts
Sep 4th '13
Quoting Queen B*:" Ok nevermind f**k all.of you b***hes who sit here on the computer looking for a woman to make a mistake ... [snip!] ... to make a mistake or ask for a little reassurance. Bye b***hes. Dont even reply I wont be back to read it. Get a job. LOL"


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Addi&Aria'smama 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Florissant, Missouri 7532 posts
Sep 4th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Squeaky McGee:</b>" Yeah... that's what I thought. The first time my DH and I didn't use a condom, I got pregnant. Then ... [snip!] ... to save you the heartache, because we've all been there, but you're taking offense to it. You need to grow some thicker skin."</blockquote>




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Pretty much the same thing with DH and I. We are on month 14 and have had one miscarriage. With dd it was one month of not taking my bc correctly and missing a couple pills.

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
Sep 5th '13

After all these years I will never understand why they all think that making up some story on how "successful" they are automatically makes them mature and that the story is believeable. Of course, they always leave with a temper tantrum and a childish insult. Ugh!!