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What should I do? ElleBelle (32 weeks) Due September 22; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Rio Rancho, NM, United States 21553 posts
status 5th Sep '13

I just found out my best friends older sister was in a bad accident and is now in a coma. We are 800 miles away but I really want her to know I'm there for her and her family. What should I do? (Obviously I've been talking to her, but also keeping my space)...but should I sent flowers to her sister in the hospital? At one point I knew her sister well when we were kids.



Tia

Addi's Momma Due January 23; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Florissant, Missouri 5298 posts
5th Sep '13

I would send flowers and maybe a cards saying you are thinking about her.

penispenispenisVAGINA 4 kids; Idaho 7058 posts
5th Sep '13

I would send flowers and a nice card.

Inc0gnitus 2 kids; Anchorage, Alaska 4325 posts
5th Sep '13

I would send flowers and a card.

ElleBelle (32 weeks) Due September 22; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Rio Rancho, NM, United States 21553 posts
status 5th Sep '13

Ok I will, thanks guys. I just never want to over step my boundaries in a grieving state.




They don't think she's going to make it

Lilia's Mama (TTC#2) TTC since Aug 2013; 1 child; Florida 3592 posts
5th Sep '13

Flowers and card letting them know you support them.

Cher Horowitz 1 child; 1 angel baby; Ohio 1887 posts
5th Sep '13

Thats so sad :( But yes flowers & a card.

ElleBelle (32 weeks) Due September 22; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Rio Rancho, NM, United States 21553 posts
status 5th Sep '13

Should I send get well soon card when the prognosis isn't good? Or just a "thinking of you" card?

Krystle ♥ 2 kids; New York 3923 posts
5th Sep '13

Thinking of you card and flowers.
:( that's so sad.

ElleBelle (32 weeks) Due September 22; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Rio Rancho, NM, United States 21553 posts
status 5th Sep '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Aunt Jemima:</b>" Thats so sad :( But yes flowers & a card."</blockquote>




I know this whole week has been awful

Cher Horowitz 1 child; 1 angel baby; Ohio 1887 posts
5th Sep '13

Thinking of you card.



Your day with come lynden, I'm still hoping we get pregnant together!

ElleBelle (32 weeks) Due September 22; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Rio Rancho, NM, United States 21553 posts
status 5th Sep '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Aunt Jemima:</b>" Thinking of you card. Your day with come lynden, I'm still hoping we get pregnant together!"</blockquote>



:)

Amelia [a Mom] 1 child; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 15015 posts
5th Sep '13

Can you have food delivered to them?

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15438 posts
5th Sep '13
Quoting Amelia Margaret:" Can you have food delivered to them?"

I was just going to suggest this. When SO's Mother was in the hospital a few Family members had food delivered in for us. People take time off work and eating out every single meal gets to be pricey. It's not something that even crosses your mind in a time like this, but it's greatly appreciated.

Amelia [a Mom] 1 child; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 15015 posts
5th Sep '13
Quoting Crystal