Reply
Doctor and patient BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
8th Sep '13

Back story:
I have a doctor who is a psychiatrist. One day while in her office she hit on me. At that point I didn't mind because I had feelings for her. We continued a sexual relationship. I did mention to her that I wanted to see a different doctor so she wouldn't get in trouble. She said we wouldn't get caught. We are starting to get really serious. It's to the point of almost love. I decided to get a new doctor now because of how serious we are. She wasn't happy, but I told her that if she wants to still be with me then she has to let me see someone else. She agreed.
She left her husband of 20 years for me. I'm not ready and I don't want to leave my husband. My hubby is getting upset over all of this. We allowed her to move in with us. I'm just so lost at what to do. I want to continue seeing both.
This is just a vent

Mrs. Conan O'Brien 2 kids; Colorado 20919 posts
8th Sep '13

um lol... does your husband know what's going on?

izzy+Ethan 2 kids; Edmonton, Alberta 4056 posts
8th Sep '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting

user banned 3 kids; Lincoln, Alabama 10353 posts
8th Sep '13

Wow a big mess

user banned 1 child; :), :), United States 5380 posts
8th Sep '13

Haven't you posted about this a few times? I'm really surprised that you guys let her move into your home!

BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
8th Sep '13
Quoting
BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
8th Sep '13
Quoting Executive Transvestite:" Haven't you posted about this a few times? I'm really surprised that you guys let her move into your home!"



Yes I have. Hubby and I talked it over.

user banned 1 child; :), :), United States 5380 posts
8th Sep '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting BG Secrets:</b>" Yes I have. Hubby and I talked it over."</blockquote>



But he is still upset about it. Doesn't sound like he is okay with your one-sided open relationship.

user banned 3 kids; Lincoln, Alabama 10353 posts
8th Sep '13
Quoting Executive Transvestite:" <blockquote><b>Quoting BG Secrets:</b>" Yes I have. Hubby and I talked it over."</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... over."</blockquote> But he is still upset about it. Doesn't sound like he is okay with your one-sided open relationship."



:!:

user banned 3 kids; Lincoln, Alabama 10353 posts
8th Sep '13

OP think about who you want more. Do you want to ruin your family by going with her?

BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
8th Sep '13

I can't kick her out. She has no were to go

user banned 3 kids; Lincoln, Alabama 10353 posts
8th Sep '13
Quoting BG Secrets:" I can't kick her out. She has no were to go"



You have to do what's right

Black Cat 1 child; Marvel, PA, United States 3774 posts
status 8th Sep '13

You have to make a decision. If you don't, you will lose both of them.

Iyahna :^P Southern California, CA, United States 12786 posts
status 8th Sep '13

I Remember you.This is like the third post about this situation.I'm glad you moved and changed doctors since you guys are getting more serious.

Ellen Reiner Japan 1 posts
8th Sep '13

she must have some money or something though, right? why cant she get a place.