Me and SO rarely have sex anymore. My libido is just gone since I had DS 15 months ago.
He always picks the worst time to initiate the deed. Like last night, my sleeping meds just kicked in and I told him I was going to sleep cuz I couldn't keep my eyes open, so that's when he thought it would be a good idea to have sex. I declined. I told him I could barely stay awake. We were home for friggin 3 hours doing nothing before that.
Or I'll tell him I have the runs, and he won't care and want sex. It's like every time I'm actually horny, he's at work or we can't have sex. And he picks the most horrible times to have sex.
It's just taking a toll on us. He woke up so mad at me because of last night. I just don't know what else to do.
Do you ever initiate having sex?
i'm having the same issue, like friday night we went out and had a couple drinks and when we left my ears started ringing really bad and my stomach felt like i got food poisoning and even though i told him this and he gave me some tylonel and as i started falling asleep he wanted sex and i declined 3 times and he finally gave up and went to bed. saturday and sunday i initiated it both times and he told me no because i told him no friday night, I was like wtf dude really? lol I even offered butt sex to make up for it. It gets very frustrated most times
<blockquote><b>Quoting Too cool. 8):</b>" Do you ever initiate having sex? "</blockquote>
I do. But not as nod ten because of my libido issue. He works 80+ hours or so a week so whenever I am horny he's never around.