How do I feel more sexy with all this? Aunty TeTe Due October 11; 6 posts9th Sep
It's not just the hormones talking. I've been a normal size my whole life, so adding 30-35 extra pounds in the shape of a watermelon sitting on my lap is not as comfortable as those "cute mothers". On top of it, I try to turn on my husband who swears I'm more beautiful and sexy than ever, but he turns me down all the time. It's awkward for me to get in any position, and the ups and downs of my physical sexual demands makes it hard for us to really get into it. Plus, we can't be intimate because I have 8 inches sticking out past my other assets, so it's one end or the other like a teeter totter. How am I supposed to feel sexy, and get over this hormonal crap? Also, how am I supposed to turn on my husband with all this extra MOVING baggage? He says when we are intimate, it's like having the kid in the room watching. I get it, but then again, I don't. I know I'm not alone here, but it's really frustrating me.
M walls 4 kids; Keenesburg, Colorado 7267 posts9th Sep
Try spooning or d********e
Shealene Schuckers Due September 15; 1 child; Pennsylvania 384 posts10th Sep
Yup, spooning is perfect. You can get comfy and your belly won't get in the way. And to be honest, I'm pregnant and I feel like there's another person in the room. Spooning makes it less awkward...but if baby is kicking, I can't go on with it, haha.