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Nicola. (Expecting #2) Due May 23; 1 child; Huntsville, AL, United States 4601 posts
10th Sep

Yes and no.



The movies show all the romance and "lovey dovey" moments. We do have those. But they don't always show the arguments, bickering, and struggles. We have those too. But we have amazing communication and the ability to let everything go quickly.
Without the struggles and disagreements, it would be hard to fully appreciate what we have. When we work out a problem together, we get stronger.



Movie romances can make it hard for some women to accept the darker side of things. They feel the relationship isn't working because it isn't like the movies. Which isn't realistic. Relationships are never perfect.

The Goblin King Due July 2; 4 kids; 2 angel babies; Ocala, FL, United States 14851 posts
10th Sep

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kimber's Mommy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Goblin King:</b>" I wouldnt say i'm in a chick flick relationship ... [snip!] ... may not be a movie romance but damn it its an amazing one"</blockquote> This made me cry. THIS should be a movie<3"</blockquote>




Was with my husband for seven years he treated me like a waste of life .SO no and I have been.friends for a few years we faught or attraction for a long time till last year. We had an affair and feel in love the moment we got into bed with eachother. It went on for two months or so before he tools me the next day he broke it of cause of my marriage. I didn't hear from him for eight then on Thanksgiving we started to chat online and I invited him to karaoke we sang with.s. He walked in the dir a looked at eachother and it was like....ban there was that love feeling again and all I said was oh shit. After singing with drag queens I felt him lace his fingers with mine under the bar. Later he told me that's when he felt the love hit him. When it came time to go I went to get in my friends car and I renderer one hand cuping my face the other on my hop and he kissed me. He had this look in his eyes like I was the one he wanted forever.no sooner did I walk in my house he called and told me he loved me he didn't care how long he had to wait that I was worth it. The next.day I left my husband. Who told me he was screwing his Co and been wanting a divorce fir a while but didn't have the courage. I should ads Daniel my sSO proposed a month ago.

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15205 posts
10th Sep

<blockquote><b>Quoting Thug Wife:</b>" I watched the gatsby and I've been really depressed that I'm not in love like that lol"</blockquote>



More toxic attributes. Obsession and more infidelity.



It's the grass is greener syndrome.

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15205 posts
10th Sep

<blockquote><b>Quoting Goblin King:</b>" I wouldnt say i'm in a chick flick relationship but i think mine is pretty rare. I have the type where ... [snip!] ... and tells me he loves me hell he's holding my hand as i type this. it may not be a movie romance but damn it its an amazing one"</blockquote>



Why don't you ever accept his proposal?

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15205 posts
10th Sep

<blockquote><b>Quoting Goblin King:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kimber's Mommy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Goblin ... [snip!] ... his Co and been wanting a divorce fir a while but didn't have the courage. I should ads Daniel my sSO proposed a month ago."</blockquote>




Wait, I thought he asked every day?



I'm glad you found happiness. But it's easy to get along when it's easy. It almost sounds like you're setting unrealistic standards for the future. What happens when you don't feel like cooking or rubbing his back? Or he doesn't notice you have goosebumps?

LayLu 17 kids; Virginia 4007 posts
10th Sep

I don't think any relationship can be like the movie relationships. SO and I have a great relationship, we're best friends.. but it's nothing like the movies. We've had our Lifetime movie drama :lol: but that's about it.

Nae&Zoe's Mommy 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Red Deer, Alberta 624 posts
10th Sep

I think movies like that are VERY unrealistic. Real relationships go through so much more ups and downs and actually trying to make things work. Its like they film the honeymoon phase with a little fight and they fall in love again, the end.

The Goblin King Due July 2; 4 kids; 2 angel babies; Ocala, FL, United States 14851 posts
10th Sep

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Goblin King:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kimber's ... [snip!] ... for the future. What happens when you don't feel like cooking or rubbing his back? Or he doesn't notice you have goosebumps?"</blockquote>




He does ask every day but its Ment in a cute way. Some days I don't done says he doesn't. Some times if I get.cold I'll just get a blanket and we cuddle up together under it. . We still have arguments like everyone else its just not nearly as much as I've had in previous relationships.. We communicate so well.