To reconnect your marriage? Spice it up? Whatever.
We're getting past our little rough spot and it's so nice to finally feel back to normal. We've decided we're going to do a couple of things from now on. One "intimate" night where we hold hands, cuddle, give each other back rubs with the knowledge it will lead to no sex. Once during the week we both have to do something "special" for each other (not anything involving money, just something nice & unexpected) without the other person knowing. And then we decided once a week we're going to plan a "at home date" for each other. Something simple but fun. What do you do?
The weekends are for family in our household, so on Saturdays we find at least one movie to watch and spend that time together while the kids run around and make themselves busy. Our movie time always takes us back to when we first started dating and it helps us remember that our little time together is precious. Once the children are older we will probably do date nights but right now we can't afford sitters.