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Quick question... Cakes. 1 child; Michigan 2437 posts
13th Sep

This is probably going to be a stupid question, but I need to ask..



Ok so, on August 26 me and SO had sex. I'm not currently on any birth control, but we use condoms every time. On this particular night the condom fell off without either of us noticing, so he came inside of me.



Usually my period comes between the 3rd and the 6th of every month. It is now the 13th with no sign of it at all. My question is, if I am pregnant wouldn't I still have this months period? And is it too early for a pregnancy to show up on a test? I took a test the other night and it was negative, but I'm not sure if it would be too early. I don't have any symptoms, but again, I was thinking it would be too early for any of the common signs.



I'm not trying to jump to any conclusions. I just know there's a possibility I could be pregnant because of the condom failing. Also, what else could make my period late? I'm not really stressed, at least not anymore than I usually am. I just really have no idea what's going on :?



Sorry if this was confusing..my mind is kind of a jumbled mess right now. TIA for any input/advice.

Amy Pond Due August 28; 2 kids; Wichita, Kansas 867 posts
13th Sep

Take a test girl!

Cakes. 1 child; Michigan 2437 posts
13th Sep
Quoting Amy Pond:" Take a test girl!"


I did the other night! It was definitely negative, but I'm thinking if I am pregnant it would be too early to tell, right? I bought 3 tests, so I'm going to take another one in a few days.

Ravey Candyass 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Boston, Massachusetts 103128 posts
13th Sep

so are you saying you'd have a period this month, but not next month? I LOLd

loser mom 2 kids; 1 angel baby; GoShox!, KS, United States 9199 posts
13th Sep

Am I misreading the OP??



No, if you're pregnant, you will NOT have a period this month.

Cakes. 1 child; Michigan 2437 posts
13th Sep
Quoting Ravey Candyass:" so are you saying you'd have a period this month, but not next month? I LOLd"


I guess? I don't know haha. I thought that I might still have a period this month, since, if I did conceive, it happened right before my period was supposed to start.



I told you it was going to be a stupid question.

Dude, you Fugly! 18 kids; Winston-Salem, North Carolina 19869 posts
13th Sep

Considering your period is that late, then yeah it's very possible you are indeed pregnant. No, you wouldn't have a period (on MOST cases, some women can still experience a "period" during pregnancy; my sister had a normal period, on time 3 months into her pregnancy.)



If AF is late, you should get a accurate result. Take it with first morning urine, it's most concentrated with hCG. Some women won't show a positive until later weeks into a pregnancy. If you still get a negative in two weeks, without a period. Call your Gyno for blood work.

Nut ღ Meg Beverly Hills, CA, United States 40235 posts
13th Sep
Quoting loser mom (vee bomb):" Am I misreading the OP?? No, if you're pregnant, you will NOT have a period this month."


:!:

loser mom 2 kids; 1 angel baby; GoShox!, KS, United States 9199 posts
13th Sep
Quoting Cakes.:" I guess? I don't know haha. I thought that I might still have a period this month, since, if I did conceive, ... [snip!] ... if I did conceive, it happened right before my period was supposed to start. I told you it was going to be a stupid question."


You really don't know that a missed period is a symptom of pregnancy??

Rebekah Garden x3 Due October 5; 33 kids; Fall River, Massachusetts 5223 posts
13th Sep

You should be able to get a test as accurate from the 10 Of sept on. The suggestion is to wait 2 weeks from the unprotected sex to have an accurate test. I would recommend just testing again. If its negative, then just mark it a fluke month and move on. If it doesn't come next month. Call your doc! Lol

Cakes. 1 child; Michigan 2437 posts
13th Sep
Quoting loser mom (vee bomb):" Am I misreading the OP?? No, if you're pregnant, you will NOT have a period this month."


Ok...like I said, stupid question. I just wasn't sure that since it would have happened on the August 26, and my period was supposed to come at the beginning of the month, if I would still have it.



I guess for some reason I thought if you conceived right before your period was supposed to start, you would still have said period.

Cakes. 1 child; Michigan 2437 posts
13th Sep
Quoting loser mom (vee bomb):" You really don't know that a missed period is a symptom of pregnancy??"


No, I know that a missed period is a symptom of pregnancy. I was asking if I indeed did conceive on August 26, if I would still have a period this month, since I would have conceived right before my period was supposed to start. I honestly thought that if you happened to conceive right before your period was supposed to start, then you would still have that period. Obviously I was wrong, which is why I asked.

Cakes. 1 child; Michigan 2437 posts
13th Sep
Quoting Dude, you Fugly!:" Considering your period is that late, then yeah it's very possible you are indeed pregnant. No, you wouldn't ... [snip!] ... until later weeks into a pregnancy. If you still get a negative in two weeks, without a period. Call your Gyno for blood work."


Ok, thank you. For some reason I thought if you conceived right before your period was supposed to start, then you could still have that period. I believe I took a test on September 11th, but it wasn't with FMU. I'll take another test tomorrow morning and go from there.



Thanks again!

Mandhee Dhandapani 2 kids; Houston, Texas 574 posts
13th Sep
youQuoting Cakes.:" I did the other night! It was definitely negative, but I'm thinking if I am pregnant it would be too early to tell, right? I bought 3 tests, so I'm going to take another one in a few days."

you will miss a period ...on top of that your levels of HCG could be low to detect if your getting negatives and you have a missed cycle...with my first baby i took it 5 days before a missed period and got a dark positive ..with this baby(#2) i got a negative on the first and fifth day of missed period ..until the sixth i finally got a positive ...a friend was getting all negatives until 14 dpo...for symptoms everyone's different you can get morning sickness as early as 2 weeks like i did with my first or get none at all ....other signs will be breast tenderness ...dark nips ...bloating ..heart burn ..headaches ...pain on shoulder ...etc ...

Cakes. 1 child; Michigan 2437 posts
13th Sep
Quoting Mandhee Dhandapani:" you will miss a period ...on top of that your levels of HCG could be low to detect if your getting negatives ... [snip!] ... all ....other signs will be breast tenderness ...dark nips ...bloating ..heart burn ..headaches ...pain on shoulder ...etc ..."


I know all the symptoms, I just have none...well, besides the missed period haha. I took a test on September 11th that was negative, but I took it at night so maybe my urine was too diluted for an accurate result. With my daughter I didn't have any symptoms until I was about 8 weeks along, it wasn't until I had an ultrasound for ovarian cysts that I found out I was pregnant, and I was 5 weeks. Back then my periods were really irregular though, so I didn't even notice that I missed one.