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♥ laura-marie + 1 1 child; Stalybridge, United Kingdom 1334 posts
17th Sep

ok I think im coming off wrong now so lets just say
im letting him go, but having a word with his father and grandmother first.
I genuinely don't cause trouble for the girl, I try to stay out as much as I can.
I care for her son too, I guess I didnt think it was a huge deal as they see each other every week for 3 days.
I'm genuinely not immature, iv literally lost hair from stress from this woman who i've still never said a bad word too.
I think if I had been invited too (as I was invited every time before my son was born) I'd have been more ok with it.

Trey&Genesis'momma 4 kids; 4 angel babies; Somewhere, IN, United States 4299 posts
17th Sep
Quoting ♥ laura-marie + 1:" yeah, Maybe I should have mentioned that in the origional post. My thought is that from next year he ... [snip!] ... have him near her. from next year he will ask to go and I'll have no choice. I just wanted to keep him away a little longer. "

Well and like I said, when he's old enough to make the choice on his own, that's when I think it would be selfish to say, "No you can't go bc I don't like his mother!" But right now, he's not very old, it's not like he's going to be tremendously upset that he doesn't go to his brother's party. So I think if you are uncomfortable with it, you have the right to not let him go for now.

♥ laura-marie + 1 1 child; Stalybridge, United Kingdom 1334 posts
17th Sep
Quoting Trey&Genesis'momma:" Well and like I said, when he's old enough to make the choice on his own, that's when I think it would ... [snip!] ... doesn't go to his brother's party. So I think if you are uncomfortable with it, you have the right to not let him go for now."


I agree, but I kinda agree with what other people are saying, I don't know.......maybe I'm just putting far too much thought into this whole thing.

Trey&Genesis'momma 4 kids; 4 angel babies; Somewhere, IN, United States 4299 posts
17th Sep
Quoting ♥ laura-marie + 1:" I agree, but I kinda agree with what other people are saying, I don't know.......maybe I'm just putting far too much thought into this whole thing. "

Well do what YOU and his father feel is best and forget what anyone else(including myself) says. This is about what you guys want and feel is best for your family, not what everyone else may think. That's all I'll say.

♥ laura-marie + 1 1 child; Stalybridge, United Kingdom 1334 posts
17th Sep
Quoting Trey&Genesis'momma:" Well do what YOU and his father feel is best and forget what anyone else(including myself) says. This ... [snip!] ... says. This is about what you guys want and feel is best for your family, not what everyone else may think. That's all I'll say."


Thank you.
Yeah I'll have a chat with him and sleep on it then decide in the morning. thank you.