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Yeah, not my fault. Boobook 4 kids; Private, WA, United States 5020 posts
status 19th Dec

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BαtMαɳ Gotham, __, United States 65605 posts
status 19th Dec

Brush it off. It's her fault. You shouldn't have to bend over backwards to accomodate her.

ßlack Rose ♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Sharon, OK, United States 5335 posts
19th Dec

Quoting BαtMαɳ:
Brush it off. It's her fault. You shouldn't have to bend over backwards to accomodate her.




Exclamation I agree with this.

Super Mommy! Costa Mesa, CA, United States 12673 posts
19th Dec

Do you know for sure that her overtime is not mandatory?

Boobook 4 kids; Private, WA, United States 5020 posts
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Super Mommy! Costa Mesa, CA, United States 12673 posts
19th Dec

Quoting Boobook:

Yeah, she makes good money and works all she can, especially over time because she likes to travel. Sometimes they allow it and some times they don't. She does nice things for my family, but I'm not scheduling BIL when he's up for a visit, KWIM? If he wasn't here any time would be a fine time to get together.

I'm just going to call her, and offer to go to her house this weekend. I do want to see her for the holiday, but I can't boss my BIL around. The women (plural lol in my family are so f**king bossy!



lol It's probably a better idea to visit her. Hope it all works out. Was she actually upset? I guess if I finally had the time and meant to visit and then was told no, I'd be upset, though. But I get where you're coming from.

Boobook 4 kids; Private, WA, United States 5020 posts
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user banned 1 child; Boston, Massachusetts 30985 posts
19th Dec

overtime is no joke -- you don't just turn it down... my husband has backed out of weddings as we were getting ready due to being called for overtime.. holidays are double time... last Christmas he went to work Christmas morning due to being called for OT. its a TON of money and she prob needed it.

don't be upset and don't bend over to accomdoate her. its LIFE

Boobook 4 kids; Private, WA, United States 5020 posts
status 19th Dec
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