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Mad Hatter 1 child; ........, .., United States 8263 posts
status 22nd Dec

If I were in your situation, yes I would abort. But good luck to you in whatever you decide Giselle. I wish you the best.

Leah+2 2 kids; Texas 5797 posts
22nd Dec

That decision is completely up to you. Nobody on here, nor your ex husband, can make it for you. Good luck!

Elliot Grace (18 weeks) Due September 22; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 18148 posts
status 22nd Dec

It's up to you. Why didn't you just use a condom with you slept with the the man?

Beauty and the beast 3 kids; Go Hawks, IA, United States 2218 posts
22nd Dec

You need to do what you feel you can live with. I wish you the best of luck in what you decide.

speaktruth2powr 2 kids; Ontario 45005 posts
22nd Dec

I can only tell you, that if I were in your exact situation, I would abort.

Having another child would severely impact your ability to care for the children you already have.

tt 3 kids; GO BIG BLUE!!!, KY, United States 2676 posts
22nd Dec

Honestly, I've been in a tough spot like this. I was 9-10 wks when I had my abortion. Different details, but in the end, the choice was hard. I did it because it was the big girl thing to do, and right for my kids, and for me. So if I were in your shoes, I probably would.

With that said, you know you're going to get some rude ass shit said here. I'm not sure BG is the right place to seek this advice, only because this is a huge deal and I suspect that some people will just be juvenile about it. Take the replies with a grain of salt and do your best, Hun.... Whatever that is. I do think considering your options...even open adoption...is wise. Good luck, Giselle. Mean that.

user banned 6 kids; 1 angel baby; Los Angeles, CA, United States 3597 posts
22nd Dec

thank you ladies. i have to make my decision very fast but i just hope its the right decision..

C ♥ 1 child; Florida 1208 posts
22nd Dec

The decision is up to you and only you. But yes, If I was in your same situation I would terminate the pregnancy.



A baby doesn't deserve to be brought into that mess, and you need to use all your time and energy on the children you have that are already in this world, and make things better for them and yourself.

user banned 6 kids; 1 angel baby; Los Angeles, CA, United States 3597 posts
22nd Dec

i don't want to be 29 with 7 kids and 6 baby daddies..

Super Mommy! Due July 31; 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Costa Mesa, California 9151 posts
22nd Dec

If I were in your exact situation, yes, I would.

tt 3 kids; GO BIG BLUE!!!, KY, United States 2676 posts
22nd Dec

Quoting Mommy to 6 ღ [+1]:
i don't want to be 29 with 7 kids and 6 baby daddies..



I think that's a reasonable thought. You've made mistakes, but that doesn't mean that you cant turn things around. Realistically, another baby will just make it more difficult, but it's a decision you alone can make. Have you ever had an abortion or considered one before?

The Time Police 2 kids; Cold Lake, AB, Canada 33400 posts
22nd Dec

If I were in your situation, I would. No one can tell you what to do. Sorry!

tt 3 kids; GO BIG BLUE!!!, KY, United States 2676 posts
22nd Dec

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Mommy to 3!!!! 3 kids; Lincoln, Alabama 10234 posts
22nd Dec

I would abort also.