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Dillinger 1 child; ........, .., United States 17087 posts
22nd Dec '13

If I were in your situation, yes I would abort. But good luck to you in whatever you decide Giselle. I wish you the best.

Leah+2 2 kids; Texas 5797 posts
22nd Dec '13

That decision is completely up to you. Nobody on here, nor your ex husband, can make it for you. Good luck!

Elle&Cole 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Rio Rancho, NM, United States 25097 posts
22nd Dec '13

It's up to you. Why didn't you just use a condom with you slept with the the man?

Mommy-of-3-awesome-kids 3 kids; Go Hawks, IA, United States 2584 posts
22nd Dec '13

You need to do what you feel you can live with. I wish you the best of luck in what you decide.

Good Queen Bess 2 kids; Ontario 46839 posts
22nd Dec '13

I can only tell you, that if I were in your exact situation, I would abort.

Having another child would severely impact your ability to care for the children you already have.

tt Due March 30; 3 kids; GO BIG BLUE!!!, KY, United States 2705 posts
22nd Dec '13

Honestly, I've been in a tough spot like this. I was 9-10 wks when I had my abortion. Different details, but in the end, the choice was hard. I did it because it was the big girl thing to do, and right for my kids, and for me. So if I were in your shoes, I probably would.

With that said, you know you're going to get some rude ass shit said here. I'm not sure BG is the right place to seek this advice, only because this is a huge deal and I suspect that some people will just be juvenile about it. Take the replies with a grain of salt and do your best, Hun.... Whatever that is. I do think considering your options...even open adoption...is wise. Good luck, Giselle. Mean that.

user banned 6 kids; 1 angel baby; Los Angeles, CA, United States 3597 posts
22nd Dec '13

thank you ladies. i have to make my decision very fast but i just hope its the right decision..

C ♥ 1 child; Florida 1208 posts
22nd Dec '13

The decision is up to you and only you. But yes, If I was in your same situation I would terminate the pregnancy.



A baby doesn't deserve to be brought into that mess, and you need to use all your time and energy on the children you have that are already in this world, and make things better for them and yourself.

user banned 6 kids; 1 angel baby; Los Angeles, CA, United States 3597 posts
22nd Dec '13

i don't want to be 29 with 7 kids and 6 baby daddies..

Super Mommy! Pasadena, CA, United States 13985 posts
22nd Dec '13

If I were in your exact situation, yes, I would.

tt Due March 30; 3 kids; GO BIG BLUE!!!, KY, United States 2705 posts
22nd Dec '13

Quoting Mommy to 6 ღ [+1]:
i don't want to be 29 with 7 kids and 6 baby daddies..



I think that's a reasonable thought. You've made mistakes, but that doesn't mean that you cant turn things around. Realistically, another baby will just make it more difficult, but it's a decision you alone can make. Have you ever had an abortion or considered one before?

tt Due March 30; 3 kids; GO BIG BLUE!!!, KY, United States 2705 posts
22nd Dec '13

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user banned 3 kids; Lincoln, Alabama 10353 posts
22nd Dec '13

I would abort also.

Crunchy Oat 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Houston, TX, United States 2829 posts
22nd Dec '13

You were just in the TTC threads talking about how you wanted another baby, then you talked about being in love with another man... seems to me you should have kept your legs closed since you couldn't figure it out. It's not fair to that baby you conceived, or any of your other kids for that matter. Personally, I call troll. It seems like the only threads you post are to stir up drama. At least I hope you are a troll... if not, those poor poor kids... sheesh Shy